Episode 19 - The Lost Art of Desire: What Men & Women Need to Know About Intimacy & Attraction

Thank you.

Yes.

I would really like to get your view on the disconnect too, because I think what it is on my end is there's a lack of self-focus.

We should never center, even women shouldn't center their life around finding a partner because it's not attractive.

It's about focusing on what you want to do with your life and building your own life.

And then when you find a partner, ideally that you guys help each other to grow, right? And I would love to get your view on that too, because some men...

I think are still in this thing where women should be submissive and women should like their goals should be secondary.

And I'm saying this because I get ripped apart.

As I mentioned to you on social media, when I share anything about my independence, it's, it's, I get complimented and ripped apart equally.

So, but it's been interesting.

So yeah.

What is your take on that disconnect when it comes to men and women and we'll say finding love?

So I think it's, similar issue that i mentioned in the previous answer is that we are putting the cart before the or in front of the horse right because women being submissive is the result not the behavior you're trying to force in any way it's the result so i'll give you give you a very specific example so when a man is exhibiting Masculine traits.

He really is a man.

He's taking care of everything.

Watch how the woman becomes.

You can even kind of backtrack and just reminisce about how you behaved as well.

I've heard comments so many times, like in my relationships and in others, women are just like, where are we? What are we even doing? She just gets lost and spaced out entirely.

And that reason is because she can finally relax fully because she feels that she's fully protected.

She's safe.

She's taken care of.

She's loved.

She's accepted.

Like all of those things.

And that's where, you know, it's a traits that are submissive.