From Sad Pick Me Girl to Alchemist
Sep 3, 2026 · 52 min · 10 segments
What if the life you were taught to want isn't actually the life you're meant to live? In this episode, I sit down with emotional crisis expert and author Rohne to talk about the stories we're sold…
I also want to touch on the fact that we come from a similar background when it comes to tech.
You had left the tech field.
And when you're saying that we're taught certain things, one of those is also to do what's safe, even if it's soul-sucking, even if it brings you no fulfillment.
And we're taught that's what you need to do to survive, right? That you don't get to have passion and financial security.
It's one or the other.
And we're not explicitly told that, but that's what we're shown.
And so for me, I'm having to unlearn that piece.
But I also take just having met you as a sign of what's possible.
And I want people to understand that when you see somebody living a life that you aspire to live, it's not taking from you.
It's showing you what is possible in any area.
There's no scarcity when it comes to success, right? We all have the potential to step into our...
our highest timeline and to really own our power and I want to shine light on two aspects of your life that I really admire and it's the fact that you did step out of tech and you did make your passion your job and also that you have a partner a healthy partner who supports you and that when I see that it's showing I don't take it as oh look at she has this and I don't have this I take it as this is what you're going to have yeah
and
that's the mindset that and I believe that to my core and I want everyone to see that because I think people see it and they're like oh Well, because I used to do that, right? Like, how do they do that? Oh, that's, this sucks.
I'm just cursed.
And what do you do? You bring on more things that prove that negative mindset.
Yeah.
So if you can just touch on your journey on those two ends, that would be amazing too.
Because again, for me, like, I think a lot of the times it's career and love that people are concerned with.
So yeah.
It's either money or it's money.
Yeah, exactly.
That's what you want.
Yeah,
I would love to, you know, dive deep into this.
I also want to touch on the fact that we come from a similar background when it comes to tech.
You had left the tech field.
And when you're saying that we're taught certain things, one of those is also to do what's safe, even if it's soul-sucking, even if it brings you no fulfillment.
And we're taught that's what you need to do to survive, right? That you don't get to have passion and financial security.
It's one or the other.
And we're not explicitly told that, but that's what we're shown.
And so for me, I'm having to unlearn that piece.
But I also take just having met you as a sign of what's possible.
And I want people to understand that when you see somebody living a life that you aspire to live, it's not taking from you.
It's showing you what is possible in any area.
There's no scarcity when it comes to success, right? We all have the potential to step into our...
our highest timeline and to really own our power and I want to shine light on two aspects of your life that I really admire and it's the fact that you did step out of tech and you did make your passion your job and also that you have a partner a healthy partner who supports you and that when I see that it's showing I don't take it as oh look at she has this and I don't have this I take it as this is what you're going to have yeah
and
that's the mindset that and I believe that to my core and I want everyone to see that because I think people see it and they're like oh Well, because I used to do that, right? Like, how do they do that? Oh, that's, this sucks.
I'm just cursed.
And what do you do? You bring on more things that prove that negative mindset.
Yeah.
So if you can just touch on your journey on those two ends, that would be amazing too.
Because again, for me, like, I think a lot of the times it's career and love that people are concerned with.
So yeah.
It's either money or it's money.
Yeah, exactly.
That's what you want.
Yeah,
I would love to, you know, dive deep into this.
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