Sep 9, 2026 · 21 min · 8 segments
Send us Fan Mail What if the difficult, frustrating, or unexpected things happening in your life are not what you think? In Episode 50 of…
Grace StarHost
David HauserHost
Kathryn LeemanHost
It's, it's- It's all the minutia that we used to feel was important or, you know, a part of reality that we had to, we have to, you know, adjust and make right and do all that stuff, and it's, it's just the universe trying to-- I feel the, uh, the universe is just trying to say, "Get over yourself," you know?

Just understand that this is an adjustment period, and take care of it one at a time.

... normally upset me like that, there's, uh, there's just an inner calm that says, "Okay, this is gonna get taken care of.

I mean, I... w- when I'm in those s-situations, like, you know, there was a huge line at the post office to get in, and I knew they were all about passports, and I, I needed to get in and, and, you know, say, "Hey, I'm just here for fingerprints." And, you know, I g- I got a lot of attitude when I went through the door.

"You're not supposed to go to that door until they open it for you." But I'm not gonna sit in a line for two hours either, you know, when I know it's something I just walk in and do.

And, you know, I'm, I'm just here for fingerprints." And then when it was my turn, it turned out that she was the lady who was gonna do my fingerprints.

It's, it's- It's all the minutia that we used to feel was important or, you know, a part of reality that we had to, we have to, you know, adjust and make right and do all that stuff, and it's, it's just the universe trying to-- I feel the, uh, the universe is just trying to say, "Get over yourself," you know?

Just understand that this is an adjustment period, and take care of it one at a time.

... normally upset me like that, there's, uh, there's just an inner calm that says, "Okay, this is gonna get taken care of.

I mean, I... w- when I'm in those s-situations, like, you know, there was a huge line at the post office to get in, and I knew they were all about passports, and I, I needed to get in and, and, you know, say, "Hey, I'm just here for fingerprints." And, you know, I g- I got a lot of attitude when I went through the door.

"You're not supposed to go to that door until they open it for you." But I'm not gonna sit in a line for two hours either, you know, when I know it's something I just walk in and do.

And, you know, I'm, I'm just here for fingerprints." And then when it was my turn, it turned out that she was the lady who was gonna do my fingerprints.
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