Sep 3, 2026 · 30 min · 15 segments
Fix Your Relationships Episode 083 — *You Are The ONE* — has been named a candidate for Best Episode of the Year at the 2026 Black Podcasting Awards. This week Dr. Tiff replays it so as many ears as…
Tiffanie HenryHost
I've spent the past 20 years working with high achieving women just like you who are crushing it in every area of their lives, everywhere except their relationships.

Finding the one ain't easy and relationships are hard, but you know what's even harder? Cycling through the bad ones or worse, staying in relationships when you already know they're not a good fit.

You want a relationship of ease, uncomplicated, someone to love you down, but instead you've been suffering through bad dates, sexual incompatibility, and someone who might be good for somebody, but not for you.

And if we're really being honest, you know that deep down, the work that really needs to be done starts and ends with you.

If you're done wasting time in dead-end relationships and sick of looking for, chasing after, or trying to convince somebody to be the one and you're ready to become the one, then baby, you're in the right place.

So prop your feet and let's clink glasses because I'm giving you the tea and the tips to fix your relationships.

I am your host, Dr. Tiff, and babes, okay? Today's episode is going to light you on fire.

Now look, I know I have been low-key dragging y'all for the past couple of weeks, but I promise you today, Girl, today you are going to get your entire life because I got a message that is especially for you.

If you have been struggling, if you've been questioning, if you've been trying to figure out what's wrong and you keep coming up with you issues, And only you, I need you to sit down for a minute.

I need you to cozy on up and turn up the volume because today's episode is going to be the hug, the embrace, the love, and the motivation and inspiration that you have been clamoring for, you've been dying for, you've been waiting for.

And before you even get to the meat of this episode, honey, I need you to pause it right now and just go ahead and tell your girlfriends.

Go ahead and put this episode in the group chat because I'm telling you today, every woman that you know needs to hear this episode.

You guys know that we have been spending a lot of time over the past several weeks talking about boundaries.

We've been talking about self-sabotage, having that takeover spirit, being in fixer mode, saying no, you know, without the guilt.

But underneath all of those patterns, there's often one core story that lives in my clients' hearts and in their minds.

I've spent the past 20 years working with high achieving women just like you who are crushing it in every area of their lives, everywhere except their relationships.

Finding the one ain't easy and relationships are hard, but you know what's even harder? Cycling through the bad ones or worse, staying in relationships when you already know they're not a good fit.

You want a relationship of ease, uncomplicated, someone to love you down, but instead you've been suffering through bad dates, sexual incompatibility, and someone who might be good for somebody, but not for you.

And if we're really being honest, you know that deep down, the work that really needs to be done starts and ends with you.

If you're done wasting time in dead-end relationships and sick of looking for, chasing after, or trying to convince somebody to be the one and you're ready to become the one, then baby, you're in the right place.

So prop your feet and let's clink glasses because I'm giving you the tea and the tips to fix your relationships.

I am your host, Dr. Tiff, and babes, okay? Today's episode is going to light you on fire.

Now look, I know I have been low-key dragging y'all for the past couple of weeks, but I promise you today, Girl, today you are going to get your entire life because I got a message that is especially for you.

If you have been struggling, if you've been questioning, if you've been trying to figure out what's wrong and you keep coming up with you issues, And only you, I need you to sit down for a minute.

I need you to cozy on up and turn up the volume because today's episode is going to be the hug, the embrace, the love, and the motivation and inspiration that you have been clamoring for, you've been dying for, you've been waiting for.

And before you even get to the meat of this episode, honey, I need you to pause it right now and just go ahead and tell your girlfriends.

Go ahead and put this episode in the group chat because I'm telling you today, every woman that you know needs to hear this episode.

You guys know that we have been spending a lot of time over the past several weeks talking about boundaries.

We've been talking about self-sabotage, having that takeover spirit, being in fixer mode, saying no, you know, without the guilt.

But underneath all of those patterns, there's often one core story that lives in my clients' hearts and in their minds.
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