The Hidden Reason You're Not Getting the Results You Want

Identity.

Identity.

And so Aaron, how would you, this is a tough one.

If you had to describe identity, how would you describe it?

Yeah, I know.

I love that question because that's what I ask my clients as well.

And I always say there's no wrong answer.

We all have a different perspective and identity.

But I guess identity, from my perspective, is how we show up in our lives.

How we show up in our lives, meaning how we present ourselves physically, how we show up emotionally, psychologically, how we carry ourselves, how we talk to people, the things that we say about ourselves and about what we're up to and about other people.

It's just this whole package of how we show up in little moments and big, significant moments.

And yeah, I think that was a great bridge because at the end of the day, what I was trying to say earlier is it's just we're always looking for new ways to help the people we love get results

and

create change where they want to create change.

And so when we think about all the work that we do, what's at the core of of the human experience as far as I'm concerned is our identity.

Yes.

The results that we get in our lives, meaning we have a thought about something or a feeling about something that typically leads to an action or an inaction, and those actions are the results we get.

But what comes before any of that is how we choose to show up.

And our identity is everything in terms of the results.

So if we are not happy with the results we're getting, right, with our relationships, with the work we're doing in this world, with our relationship with ourselves, with how we look physically or our health and wellness, if we're not happy with those results, what's at the core of that is how we're choosing to show up in our lives and the decisions that we're making every day.