Nov 26, 2025 · 23 min · 8 segments
Send us Fan Mail **Episode Summary** In this special episode of the Estates Made Simple podcast, Gordon VanderLeek is joined one last time by long-time co-host Jenna Carvalho of Guardian Estate…
But what I thought for this session, we could take a few minutes just to talk about a few things.
I came up with the three Ts, tips, trends, and themes as a way to maybe galvanize a little bit of our thinking for the past number of episodes over the last two and a half years, and maybe some parting thoughts or wisdom, Jenna, for you as we go through it.
Everybody loves a tip and it's maybe, why don't we start with, if you had to leave a tip for the audience that would be helpful in the context of all the episodes we've done geared towards the state administration, what would that be?
Communication is key when you're administering an estate, communicating with the necessary beneficiaries, all other stakeholders, advisors, anyone related to the estate.
Communication is the number one tool to reduce conflict, reduce unanswered questions, reduce suspicions and to build trust.
It is interesting because this past weekend I had the opportunity to join a family meeting.
where the parents as well as the beneficiaries were in the room having this discussion before anyone passed away.
And it was such a powerful moment because I thought how many families wish they could have had this conversation prior to death.
And we've talked about estate administration, but I would also stress that if you're in a position to do your will or do your estate plan and you want to communicate it to your beneficiaries, I would highly recommend you do so because it's an amazing moment.
And while we focus this podcast on being of assistance to executors and administrators, having that in place from a planning perspective, we think about reducing contention, but just it's more fulsome, more meaningful, I think, for the beneficiaries, in this case, the kids, right? If parents pass away, they go, here's the plan.
But what I thought for this session, we could take a few minutes just to talk about a few things.
I came up with the three Ts, tips, trends, and themes as a way to maybe galvanize a little bit of our thinking for the past number of episodes over the last two and a half years, and maybe some parting thoughts or wisdom, Jenna, for you as we go through it.
Everybody loves a tip and it's maybe, why don't we start with, if you had to leave a tip for the audience that would be helpful in the context of all the episodes we've done geared towards the state administration, what would that be?
Communication is key when you're administering an estate, communicating with the necessary beneficiaries, all other stakeholders, advisors, anyone related to the estate.
Communication is the number one tool to reduce conflict, reduce unanswered questions, reduce suspicions and to build trust.
It is interesting because this past weekend I had the opportunity to join a family meeting.
where the parents as well as the beneficiaries were in the room having this discussion before anyone passed away.
And it was such a powerful moment because I thought how many families wish they could have had this conversation prior to death.
And we've talked about estate administration, but I would also stress that if you're in a position to do your will or do your estate plan and you want to communicate it to your beneficiaries, I would highly recommend you do so because it's an amazing moment.
And while we focus this podcast on being of assistance to executors and administrators, having that in place from a planning perspective, we think about reducing contention, but just it's more fulsome, more meaningful, I think, for the beneficiaries, in this case, the kids, right? If parents pass away, they go, here's the plan.
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