Jul 21, 2026 · 12 min · 5 segments
Send Mary a message Some of the biggest obstacles to easier movement aren't age, arthritis, or old injuries. They're the small habits you repeat…
Hi, did you know that some of the biggest obstacles to easier, more fluid movement aren't age or arthritis or even old injuries, right? They're actually the small things you do over and over again every day, every single day, and the same is true for your horse or your dog.
The first one is not noticing if you're comfortable or not, like not being able to say, "Yes, this is comfortable," or, "No, it's not comfortable." It's like you, you just ignore comfort.
And the reason we do that is because we, we feel the same way over and over, whether that's comfortable or not, and so it just becomes normal.
Our nervous system doesn't register that we're uncomfortable, and it's just familiar, and the nervous system tends to repeat what feels familiar.
It's like you don't even think about whether a position or a movement is comfortable or not.
Number two is you're moving too fast, right? It's very difficult to notice subtle, important differences when you're moving too fast, right? You know, as a matter of fact, here, let's do this.
Don't do this if you're listening to this while you're driving a car or a tractor or something, but if you're in a place to do this, just very slowly turn your head just a little bit from side to side, and notice if one direction feels a little freer, a little easier.
Now, if you did that quickly, which I don't recommend, if you did it quickly, your brain wouldn't have time and space to notice whether one direction was easier or, or not.
And it's important that we do notice differences because that's how we learn, and we can start to, um, you'll, you'll see as, as I go through the episode today that there's other ways then of helping the more challenging side feel more like the freer side.
Some people would tell you you need to stretch and strain so both sides are, are equal.
I would discourage you from doing that because trying harder, what you're probably doing is you're just creating more strain in your system, more things to compensate for, more things your nervous system has to protect against, and it ends up backfiring, right? So that is not, in my opinion, a good strategy at all, just to simply push through and try harder.
Instead, again, if you slow down, do less, do smaller movements, you'll notice more, and that's when you can say, "Oh, wait a minute, that's not quite comfortable." And then, and this is what I teach in my, in my, both in my horse programs and my dog programs, right? We pa- put a lot of emphasis on the human portion of it for you because improving your movement will help you help your horse or your dog more effectively.
Hi, did you know that some of the biggest obstacles to easier, more fluid movement aren't age or arthritis or even old injuries, right? They're actually the small things you do over and over again every day, every single day, and the same is true for your horse or your dog.
The first one is not noticing if you're comfortable or not, like not being able to say, "Yes, this is comfortable," or, "No, it's not comfortable." It's like you, you just ignore comfort.
And the reason we do that is because we, we feel the same way over and over, whether that's comfortable or not, and so it just becomes normal.
Our nervous system doesn't register that we're uncomfortable, and it's just familiar, and the nervous system tends to repeat what feels familiar.
It's like you don't even think about whether a position or a movement is comfortable or not.
Number two is you're moving too fast, right? It's very difficult to notice subtle, important differences when you're moving too fast, right? You know, as a matter of fact, here, let's do this.
Don't do this if you're listening to this while you're driving a car or a tractor or something, but if you're in a place to do this, just very slowly turn your head just a little bit from side to side, and notice if one direction feels a little freer, a little easier.
Now, if you did that quickly, which I don't recommend, if you did it quickly, your brain wouldn't have time and space to notice whether one direction was easier or, or not.
And it's important that we do notice differences because that's how we learn, and we can start to, um, you'll, you'll see as, as I go through the episode today that there's other ways then of helping the more challenging side feel more like the freer side.
Some people would tell you you need to stretch and strain so both sides are, are equal.
I would discourage you from doing that because trying harder, what you're probably doing is you're just creating more strain in your system, more things to compensate for, more things your nervous system has to protect against, and it ends up backfiring, right? So that is not, in my opinion, a good strategy at all, just to simply push through and try harder.
Instead, again, if you slow down, do less, do smaller movements, you'll notice more, and that's when you can say, "Oh, wait a minute, that's not quite comfortable." And then, and this is what I teach in my, in my, both in my horse programs and my dog programs, right? We pa- put a lot of emphasis on the human portion of it for you because improving your movement will help you help your horse or your dog more effectively.
The rest of this transcript — segmented and speaker-labeled, so you land on the exact moment something was said
Search every transcript — by keyword, by phrase, or by meaning, across every show Radar indexes
Trends — what is surging across podcasts, measured against its own baseline
Alerts — when a name you follow appears in a newly indexed episode
No account is needed to search Radar.