Feminist dating strategies

Okay, Tracy.

So I have a running list of red flags.

And when I see these elements on a dating app profile, all of my warning bells go off and I click away very quickly and or block this person, which we will talk about where I got the idea to block off the bat.

So I wanted to share my red flags with you to kick off this episode and get your reaction because I know that you're not familiar with these very common tropes that women are seeing all the time on the dating apps.

To be clear, these come up a lot.

And yet, of course, we are still hearing so much about women's heteropessimism and how negative they are about dating.

So as a married, happily married woman, I want to know how you would feel if you saw these on the dating apps.

Okay.

Okay.

Let's start with maybe the most obvious one, which I have been toying with.

I want to write a whole essay on this.

which is the dick pic.

Now, to be clear, I have seen pictures of these members, privates, covered in underwear.

Obviously, I'm a mommy.

Covered with underwear, mostly on hookup apps, because as far as I'm aware, you can't actually put like explicit photos on these apps.

Like on your

profile.

Right.

I think that there have been some issues with men violating those rules on apps.

But in general, I think that explicit photos are

not to be shared.

And you'll see like warnings

when you sign up for the

app that you shouldn't be doing that.

Doesn't mean it's not