Episode 9 - Aftercare Matters

I spent 34 years STI-free, moved to where I'm living now, and since then, yeah, it's just a resurgence.

And, you know, occupational hazard, I guess.

You know, in the kink world, it happens.

But, yeah, I maintained a 34-year streak, and then it was broken.

Yeah.

fair i mean i would say that's pretty damn lucky then um i i always find that dark lands i come away with something i was very lucky this year that i came away with nothing so same oh shocked doxy doxy pip all the way what's the worst thing you've done

So I would say the worst thing that I've done is actually something that I do on purpose to keep the community around me safe.

We all know that there's some bad eggs within the pop community.

Oh, yeah.

People who push boundaries or just not very nice to people at events.

Yep.

And I'm not one to call out drama.

I'm not one to, you know, put it on a pedestal and announce to people this person is not good.

But what I do is, is if that person approaches me and tries to engage, I don't talk to them.

I just audibly heave until they leave.

Yeah.

i just make retching noises um until they leave my personal space and i have been called out on it before someone did dare to ask and i did you know give them a big dose of reality of i've seen what you've done at events that doesn't vibe with me so this is my way of telling you to fuck off um and yeah um it You know, I told him exactly why.

If you've done me, my friends or the community wrong, you're not getting the charming version of me.

Or, you know, the version is, you know, happy gremlin noises.

Yeah, it's a charming

version.

There is sometimes.

Normally, it's just me.

Normally, it's just me like audibly retching until you think that I'm going to vomit on your shoe.

And especially when the hood goes on.