Episode 5 - Cards On The Table

[Instrumental music] Is it time for Deviant Download? Your time to educate and learn with us, Quincy and Dax.

And this time it's Joker.

So sit down and listen for Deviant Download.

But anyway, onto your segment, not mine.

Well, I, I-

We're here to hear about your segment

... yeah, onto my one.

As usual, I'll introduce the question.

We will have a, uh, little graphic that comes on online, just having a bit of a debrief and just having a view about it so you can easily scroll on your phone rather than listen through the whole podcast.

But, um, the question today is how to connect in the kink and fetish community.

So today we've talked a lot about the Bone Battle cards, a great way to connect.

We talked a bit about anxiety and that you can be very anxious d- doing, going out in public, meeting people.

One of my first things that I was gonna say is start small.

Uh, you don't feel like you have to go to Darklands or Folsom.

We've, we talk- we keep talking about these huge events, 'cause it's somewhere that a lot of people connect and people know, but there are smaller events that are out there which you can connect with people.

Going to different bars and just, maybe just meeting one person is a goal enough for you.

So, Dax, you went to Folsom.

You went to a big one on your first time, didn't you?

Yeah.

Never been at F- Folsom.

For me it was, uh-

Th- th- those, Darklands

...

Darklands was my first one.

Yeah.