Sep 22, 2026 · 1 hr 18 min · 13 segments
Is it a Twunk? Is it a Daddy? It's a Twaddy! This week Dax and Quincy are joined by Twaddy to discuss what it means to be a Master and Dom, and how to support your sub(s). Subsequently, this weeks…
do you think it's an issue that a lot of people that are maybe trying to get into kink, they'll see something in porn and try and recreate it?
To a point, yes.
Because what we never think about is the amount of work that is behind a picture.
And sometimes a picture is only here for artistic purpose.
All the three people wearing the model go away for the time of the picture.
The model suffers for like a second that's for himself or herself some 30 minutes of pain and agony just for the time to take some nice pictures and everybody comes back to hold against this person.
And when you see the picture, you're like, oh, this seems fun.
this was not fun and obviously when we see a picture we don't speak even even myself knowing the back of the story etc you don't think about that in the picture so we're missing this kind of education to know that um a picture is a picture and that's not reality of what can be behind yeah
it's sort of that illusion between fantasy and reality yeah and and i think that I think with media and stuff today, it's getting harder and harder.
And AI.
It's harder to sometimes break away from what is real and what's not real.
What's fantasy and what is reality? And I can see a lot of people struggling, especially younger people now struggling to try and connect with the world and see what is reality.
Maybe because of... maybe covid as well hasn't helped um being stuck inside and not being outside and connecting with the world it's probably not helped as well but it it's really it's something that i think needs more education on is what is reality and what is fantasy
what i always say is um it's like um it's like when you see uh someone uh winning being at the finish finishing line of a marathon You see that he has been at the finishing line of the marathon and you're saying, okay, that sounds fun.
What you don't see is that he's been preparing for two years before for that, going on frequent runs, knowing his diet and this kind of thing.
You only see the last thing out of it.
And it's the same thing, I would say, in the BDSM and dynamics.
And on that, sometimes I think that I'm also part of the problem.
Because what I'm showing to the world is a dynamic that's been going on for years.
What I'm showing to the world is a service that responds to my orders, a dynamic that's going on and well, that's very hard BDSM sometimes, GIMP, this kind of stuff.
And everybody is saying, oh my God, that's lovely, I want that.
Yes, but if you want that, be prepared for all the work that you have to do before and that's what i'm trying to express in that but it's hard
no no i i had a similar occasion recently i was uh invited to flog someone at an event did it and everything else um and i finished afterwards and there was a few people that came out to me went oh that's amazing and you could see they want to do it and i'm like okay one that takes a lot of time.
I've been doing this for three, four years and I used to literally spend hours after coming home hitting a pillow with a flogger to
do you think it's an issue that a lot of people that are maybe trying to get into kink, they'll see something in porn and try and recreate it?
To a point, yes.
Because what we never think about is the amount of work that is behind a picture.
And sometimes a picture is only here for artistic purpose.
All the three people wearing the model go away for the time of the picture.
The model suffers for like a second that's for himself or herself some 30 minutes of pain and agony just for the time to take some nice pictures and everybody comes back to hold against this person.
And when you see the picture, you're like, oh, this seems fun.
this was not fun and obviously when we see a picture we don't speak even even myself knowing the back of the story etc you don't think about that in the picture so we're missing this kind of education to know that um a picture is a picture and that's not reality of what can be behind yeah
it's sort of that illusion between fantasy and reality yeah and and i think that I think with media and stuff today, it's getting harder and harder.
And AI.
It's harder to sometimes break away from what is real and what's not real.
What's fantasy and what is reality? And I can see a lot of people struggling, especially younger people now struggling to try and connect with the world and see what is reality.
Maybe because of... maybe covid as well hasn't helped um being stuck inside and not being outside and connecting with the world it's probably not helped as well but it it's really it's something that i think needs more education on is what is reality and what is fantasy
what i always say is um it's like um it's like when you see uh someone uh winning being at the finish finishing line of a marathon You see that he has been at the finishing line of the marathon and you're saying, okay, that sounds fun.
What you don't see is that he's been preparing for two years before for that, going on frequent runs, knowing his diet and this kind of thing.
You only see the last thing out of it.
And it's the same thing, I would say, in the BDSM and dynamics.
And on that, sometimes I think that I'm also part of the problem.
Because what I'm showing to the world is a dynamic that's been going on for years.
What I'm showing to the world is a service that responds to my orders, a dynamic that's going on and well, that's very hard BDSM sometimes, GIMP, this kind of stuff.
And everybody is saying, oh my God, that's lovely, I want that.
Yes, but if you want that, be prepared for all the work that you have to do before and that's what i'm trying to express in that but it's hard
no no i i had a similar occasion recently i was uh invited to flog someone at an event did it and everything else um and i finished afterwards and there was a few people that came out to me went oh that's amazing and you could see they want to do it and i'm like okay one that takes a lot of time.
I've been doing this for three, four years and I used to literally spend hours after coming home hitting a pillow with a flogger to
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