Go Ask Molly July 14

It says, "So, I have adult children.

They're all different.

My oldest is very successful and responsible.

My youngest is doing well in college, but my middle son struggles.

I've always supported him, even though he has made decisions that has made his life harder.

He's almost 30 now, and has started doing this new thing where he recounts his life as if his father and I should have done things differently, and he wouldn't be in the spot that he is.

[laughs] It's subtle, uh, things about how he did in school, uh, which sports he played, even who he hung out with.

It's crazy.

He was so hard to raise, and he took zero advice, and now is trying to make all of his choices our fault.

Hmm.

He doesn't come out and say it, but it's there, and I don't know what to say.

I want to defend myself, but because it's so covert, I really can't grab onto anything.

What are your thoughts?" I mean-

We don't have an age? We just, just, just use an adult.

30.

Almost 30.

Oh, I'm sorry.

I missed that.

Wasn't paying attention.

[laughs] Sorry.

It's the first time that's ever happened, that I missed something.

[laughs]

[laughs] Would you like me to tell you it again?

No.

Are you sure? [clears throat] Any other questions before we start?