Oct 9, 2026 · 52 min · 10 segments
In this episode, Dr. James covers the first half of a top ten list on how to have a happy wife and a happy life, counting down from ten. Dr. Cathie is away preaching, so he teaches it on his own.
A lot of marriage problems, you know, aren't some big, giant, mysterious thing.
It's not some, "Ooh, the devil's really out to get my marriage." Of course he is.
He's out to steal, kill, and destroy everything in your life.
[laughs] But here's the deal.
Sometimes it's things that are simple.
Sometimes people just feel unseen or, or unheard or unappreciated.
Sometimes somebody just feels over- overlooked.
Sometimes people feel taken for granted.
Sometimes people feel pursued before they got married, but ignored after they got married.
But if we can all get a little more wisdom, a little more humility, and a little more love flowing in our homes, we can help some marriages.
Amen.
So here's her top 10 list that she gave me, and this is gonna be good, 'cause these are good.
And I'm only gonna get, I can tell you in advance, especially looking at, at the time already, and I'm just in the introduction, but here's the first one.
Uh, here's the deal.
Uh ...
Uh, here's the deal.
If Avery or Donna could go put my laundry outside, that would be great, 'cause the laundry guy just texted me to tell me he'd come.
But see, normally I would have a wife handling these things, but instead she's off gallivanting in, uh, Canadia, something like that? [laughs] Um, anyway.
I act like I can see what it says.
Anyway, number 10.
Are you ready? Share this with somebody.
Number 10.
Number 10.
You don't have to, Michael got it.
A lot of marriage problems, you know, aren't some big, giant, mysterious thing.
It's not some, "Ooh, the devil's really out to get my marriage." Of course he is.
He's out to steal, kill, and destroy everything in your life.
[laughs] But here's the deal.
Sometimes it's things that are simple.
Sometimes people just feel unseen or, or unheard or unappreciated.
Sometimes somebody just feels over- overlooked.
Sometimes people feel taken for granted.
Sometimes people feel pursued before they got married, but ignored after they got married.
But if we can all get a little more wisdom, a little more humility, and a little more love flowing in our homes, we can help some marriages.
Amen.
So here's her top 10 list that she gave me, and this is gonna be good, 'cause these are good.
And I'm only gonna get, I can tell you in advance, especially looking at, at the time already, and I'm just in the introduction, but here's the first one.
Uh, here's the deal.
Uh ...
Uh, here's the deal.
If Avery or Donna could go put my laundry outside, that would be great, 'cause the laundry guy just texted me to tell me he'd come.
But see, normally I would have a wife handling these things, but instead she's off gallivanting in, uh, Canadia, something like that? [laughs] Um, anyway.
I act like I can see what it says.
Anyway, number 10.
Are you ready? Share this with somebody.
Number 10.
Number 10.
You don't have to, Michael got it.
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