Chat with Nat: Caregiving, Money, Finances, and Support for Caregivers
Aug 5, 2026 · 13 min · 8 segments
Tell Natalie what you love about this episode, text here! **After nearly four years of caring for her mom, caregiving had become more than something…
When people hear the word hospice, they often think it means giving up.
I know several years ago, that's what I thought.
Before I started this journey, before I connected with other caregivers who were on the hospice path already, I didn't understand that it's not just something that happens at the very end, although for our family, it did step in towards the end.
But the truth is, none of us knew how quickly mom would go.
Many people that I interact with, many people that are caregivers, their person has been on hospice for an extended period of time due to care that they need and comfort that can be provided.
For us, hospice is where peace began.
But before hospice, we had home health.
Incredible nurses, physical therapists, occupational therapists, speech therapists, aides, social workers, people who came into our home carrying not just equipment and medical knowledge, but kindness.
They brought joy.
They brought an uplifting light spirit into a home that often felt heavy with hard things to handle.
They taught me.
They encouraged me.
They celebrated victories with us.
When I questioned myself, they reminded me I was doing better than I thought.
When I cried, they didn't rush me.
When I felt exhausted, they saw it before I could admit it.
They reminded me that caregivers need caregiving too.
And then came hospice.
I remember wondering, up to the point that myself and my family made a decision it was time for hospice, that if I made that call, was I failing my mom? Was I giving up on her ability to maybe do some things? But instead, it became one of the greatest gifts we ever gave her, and one of the greatest gifts anyone has given me.
Because hospice didn't take over my role, they made it possible for me to keep being her daughter, which was and is the most important role I could have for my mom.
When people hear the word hospice, they often think it means giving up.
I know several years ago, that's what I thought.
Before I started this journey, before I connected with other caregivers who were on the hospice path already, I didn't understand that it's not just something that happens at the very end, although for our family, it did step in towards the end.
But the truth is, none of us knew how quickly mom would go.
Many people that I interact with, many people that are caregivers, their person has been on hospice for an extended period of time due to care that they need and comfort that can be provided.
For us, hospice is where peace began.
But before hospice, we had home health.
Incredible nurses, physical therapists, occupational therapists, speech therapists, aides, social workers, people who came into our home carrying not just equipment and medical knowledge, but kindness.
They brought joy.
They brought an uplifting light spirit into a home that often felt heavy with hard things to handle.
They taught me.
They encouraged me.
They celebrated victories with us.
When I questioned myself, they reminded me I was doing better than I thought.
When I cried, they didn't rush me.
When I felt exhausted, they saw it before I could admit it.
They reminded me that caregivers need caregiving too.
And then came hospice.
I remember wondering, up to the point that myself and my family made a decision it was time for hospice, that if I made that call, was I failing my mom? Was I giving up on her ability to maybe do some things? But instead, it became one of the greatest gifts we ever gave her, and one of the greatest gifts anyone has given me.
Because hospice didn't take over my role, they made it possible for me to keep being her daughter, which was and is the most important role I could have for my mom.
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