Avoid These Body Language Mistakes to Be Liked
Oct 30, 2026 · 5 min · 6 segments
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Oct 30, 2026 · 5 min · 6 segments
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First one, it has to do with where you put your attention when you're out in public.
You're talking to someone and maybe for whatever reason you'd like to explore, you want to talk to another person.
The worst thing that you could do in that situation is start to scan the room because you're not making that interaction interesting and fun.
It is incredibly hard to get other people to join you when you don't look engaged yourself.
Second thing also has to do with attention and it's to not let someone interrupt you while someone else is talking to you.
I thought, what is he doing? And a minute or two later, he said, hey, sorry, you had said something.
Even though I didn't totally like it, the fact that he was so centered as to focus on where he was was worthwhile.
One other time you don't want to do this is when you're in a group of people and someone new enters.
It's actually good to pause the conversation, be the one that incorporates them, and then get things back on track.
Third thing, trapping is the idea that you could be somewhere, maybe you're on a booth, maybe someone is against a wall.
If you don't know them and you kind of close them in, it feels very uncomfortable.
The flip side of this though, if you're out at a bar, lean against the bar when you're talking to someone.
It makes that person feel at ease and it makes everyone else in the room think those people probably know each other fairly well.
If that other person wanders off, that's someone that I can comfortably talk to.
First one, it has to do with where you put your attention when you're out in public.
You're talking to someone and maybe for whatever reason you'd like to explore, you want to talk to another person.
The worst thing that you could do in that situation is start to scan the room because you're not making that interaction interesting and fun.
It is incredibly hard to get other people to join you when you don't look engaged yourself.
Second thing also has to do with attention and it's to not let someone interrupt you while someone else is talking to you.
I thought, what is he doing? And a minute or two later, he said, hey, sorry, you had said something.
Even though I didn't totally like it, the fact that he was so centered as to focus on where he was was worthwhile.
One other time you don't want to do this is when you're in a group of people and someone new enters.
It's actually good to pause the conversation, be the one that incorporates them, and then get things back on track.
Third thing, trapping is the idea that you could be somewhere, maybe you're on a booth, maybe someone is against a wall.
If you don't know them and you kind of close them in, it feels very uncomfortable.
The flip side of this though, if you're out at a bar, lean against the bar when you're talking to someone.
It makes that person feel at ease and it makes everyone else in the room think those people probably know each other fairly well.
If that other person wanders off, that's someone that I can comfortably talk to.
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