198. Over sharing without purpose? Pt 2

In the last episode, we kind of hit on some points of vulnerability and what is healthy vulnerability and speaking truth in love.

And just to kind of recap before I wrap up this, we talked about vulnerability tells truth, but it has a purpose.

And it's so important that we make sure that it's not just about information, but it's with intention and purpose.

Speaking the truth doesn't mean that we have to share all the details.

So those graphic descriptions and being honest without, we don't have to be completely exposed, so important.

And then vulnerability isn't permission to expose someone else.

Sometimes we'll be vulnerable in an effort to expose kind of bring somebody else's story into our story.

Now we can be honest about what they did and how it impacted us, but when we make it just about them, that's where it gets a little bit wobbly.

And we want to make sure that vulnerability is not about manipulation.

You know, I'm going to get what I want because you hurt me kind of an idea.

Honesty and control are two different things.

And then we wrapped up with sometimes that healthiest vulnerability is delayed vulnerability.

Maybe I need to spend some time processing it beforehand.

um, before I actually share it, um, with multiple people.

So, uh, maybe just God and my sponsor, and then I can kind of go to some, some additional people, but not sharing it to any and all people and kind of touched on the social media dangers.

They're just vomiting out, um, information that's not really useful, but, um, But kind of continuing this, and I'll wrap up this conversation today on vulnerability, healthy vulnerability, speaking the truth in love, growing up in Christ as we speak the truth in love, is so important.

In the last episode, we kind of hit on some points of vulnerability and what is healthy vulnerability and speaking truth in love.

And just to kind of recap before I wrap up this, we talked about vulnerability tells truth, but it has a purpose.

And it's so important that we make sure that it's not just about information, but it's with intention and purpose.

Speaking the truth doesn't mean that we have to share all the details.

So those graphic descriptions and being honest without, we don't have to be completely exposed, so important.

And then vulnerability isn't permission to expose someone else.

Sometimes we'll be vulnerable in an effort to expose kind of bring somebody else's story into our story.

Now we can be honest about what they did and how it impacted us, but when we make it just about them, that's where it gets a little bit wobbly.

And we want to make sure that vulnerability is not about manipulation.

You know, I'm going to get what I want because you hurt me kind of an idea.

Honesty and control are two different things.

And then we wrapped up with sometimes that healthiest vulnerability is delayed vulnerability.

Maybe I need to spend some time processing it beforehand.

um, before I actually share it, um, with multiple people.

So, uh, maybe just God and my sponsor, and then I can kind of go to some, some additional people, but not sharing it to any and all people and kind of touched on the social media dangers.

They're just vomiting out, um, information that's not really useful, but, um, But kind of continuing this, and I'll wrap up this conversation today on vulnerability, healthy vulnerability, speaking the truth in love, growing up in Christ as we speak the truth in love, is so important.