Carla RomoHost
Maybe you're not invited to a wedding, but you have to go to a party by yourself, and you didn't get to get that plus one.

And maybe you did get the plus one, but you don't have that plus one, and it's just a reminder.

Yes, of course, I wanna go celebrate these people or person and have a great time at this thing," but it is an emotional toll for me.

And now I have to go watch two beautiful people have the happiest time of their life getting married, and it doesn't mean that you're not happy for them.

But it is also acceptable to be in your fucking feelings about it, and it is not talked about enough.

Why? Because if you shared that with somebody else, they'd be like, "Shut the fuck up.

Where's the evidence, right? And then you start going in a whole existential crisis about being single and how you'll never find somebody, so you might as well just settle alone by yourself.

Maybe you're not invited to a wedding, but you have to go to a party by yourself, and you didn't get to get that plus one.

And maybe you did get the plus one, but you don't have that plus one, and it's just a reminder.

Yes, of course, I wanna go celebrate these people or person and have a great time at this thing," but it is an emotional toll for me.

And now I have to go watch two beautiful people have the happiest time of their life getting married, and it doesn't mean that you're not happy for them.

But it is also acceptable to be in your fucking feelings about it, and it is not talked about enough.

Why? Because if you shared that with somebody else, they'd be like, "Shut the fuck up.

Where's the evidence, right? And then you start going in a whole existential crisis about being single and how you'll never find somebody, so you might as well just settle alone by yourself.
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