Calm Your Daily Stress - Stress Relief for the Busy Midlife Woman
Jun 23, 2026 · 28 min · 12 segments
What if six minutes with a good book could actually calm your nervous system? Spoiler: it can, and the research proves it. Stephanie Affinito shares with us why reading and writing are two of the…
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Stephanie AffinitoGuestDenise EckertHost[laughs] Now you talked a little bit about the research and the benefits of reading.

As we are adults, it is so hard to give ourselves permission for self-care, to just relax, to not do something that crosses something off of the list.
I'd love for you to share a little bit about the research or a lot about the research, 'cause I've actually never heard any research about books and reading and what it actually can do for us.

So then you're my favorite kind of person to talk to because this often feels really good to someone who already loves to read and write and then realizes the health benefit it has.

So just by engaging, if we start with reading first, just by engaging in the act of reading, moving our eyes left to right across a page again and again and again, whether that is a physical paper page or a, a digital e-reader page, what happens because of that left to right movement and that kind of meditative state, it actually changes our body at a cellular level.

Research has shown that our heart rate reduces, our breathing rate reduces, our blood pressure decreases, our muscles relax.

And if we do those things over time, then that contributes to better sleep, less stress reduction, and some of, of my favorite bits of research, less inflammation in the body, increased function in relation to liver panels and immunology, just by engaging in the act of reading and writing because we are physically calming our nervous system in ways that don't allow us to multitask because we are, have our eyes on the paper, whether that's something we're reading or something we're writing, and it literally calms our nervous system down.

At a physical level, our bodies just exhale when we read and when we write.

Can, can you guess how many minutes of reading it might take for our bodies to start to respond in that way?

Research shows, yeah, it only takes six minutes to get your body into that relaxed state.

But if you keep going, a really exciting piece of research shows that if you read for 30 minutes straight, then you have the same impact on your parasympathetic nervous system as if you did 30 minutes of yoga.

Now, your muscles don't feel the same, [laughs] but your nervous system feels just as relaxed.

The act of reading really does change our bodies on a cellular level that over time can add up and multiply and really have positive impacts on our life, on our wellbeing, and even our lifespan.

Readers have been shown in longitudinal research to live up to two years longer than the rest of the non-reading population.
[laughs] Now you talked a little bit about the research and the benefits of reading.

As we are adults, it is so hard to give ourselves permission for self-care, to just relax, to not do something that crosses something off of the list.
I'd love for you to share a little bit about the research or a lot about the research, 'cause I've actually never heard any research about books and reading and what it actually can do for us.

So then you're my favorite kind of person to talk to because this often feels really good to someone who already loves to read and write and then realizes the health benefit it has.

So just by engaging, if we start with reading first, just by engaging in the act of reading, moving our eyes left to right across a page again and again and again, whether that is a physical paper page or a, a digital e-reader page, what happens because of that left to right movement and that kind of meditative state, it actually changes our body at a cellular level.

Research has shown that our heart rate reduces, our breathing rate reduces, our blood pressure decreases, our muscles relax.

And if we do those things over time, then that contributes to better sleep, less stress reduction, and some of, of my favorite bits of research, less inflammation in the body, increased function in relation to liver panels and immunology, just by engaging in the act of reading and writing because we are physically calming our nervous system in ways that don't allow us to multitask because we are, have our eyes on the paper, whether that's something we're reading or something we're writing, and it literally calms our nervous system down.

At a physical level, our bodies just exhale when we read and when we write.

Can, can you guess how many minutes of reading it might take for our bodies to start to respond in that way?

Research shows, yeah, it only takes six minutes to get your body into that relaxed state.

But if you keep going, a really exciting piece of research shows that if you read for 30 minutes straight, then you have the same impact on your parasympathetic nervous system as if you did 30 minutes of yoga.

Now, your muscles don't feel the same, [laughs] but your nervous system feels just as relaxed.

The act of reading really does change our bodies on a cellular level that over time can add up and multiply and really have positive impacts on our life, on our wellbeing, and even our lifespan.

Readers have been shown in longitudinal research to live up to two years longer than the rest of the non-reading population.
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