Aug 31, 2026 · 51 min · 16 segments
What happens when a first-time mom arrives at the hospital **5 centimeters dilated—and everyone thinks she still has hours to go?** In this positive birth story, Kat shares how she prepared for an…
Bridget TylerHost
and that just your mental capacity to be like, no, I'm going to keep going and doing what I'm doing and trusting in myself, then you can quietly fight for yourself.

Because it's not that you were like up in arms and you're like, no, I'm not going to do that.
end of the day it's it's your birth like and I think that's what moms have to remember especially first time moms yeah like your provider is there to keep you safe to help you through it but it is your birth experience you can make it how you want it and even if you're in the hospital setting like I was like it's your birth like it You can say no, you can ask questions, you can do all the things.
And I feel like that's really important to remember going into it because it's not obvious that you can push back, but you can.
And you can still, yeah, you can have your birth that you want in a hospital setting.

And I think that is so empowering because most women are going to be giving birth in a hospital.

You did things a little differently where you went to the hospital, but you labored outside for, you know, as long as you wanted to.

And then you went in and you were like, I'm going to do things the way that I want to, regardless of what anyone thinks or says or does.

You give birth to him in... matter of pushes, which is so amazing for a first time mom.

and that just your mental capacity to be like, no, I'm going to keep going and doing what I'm doing and trusting in myself, then you can quietly fight for yourself.

Because it's not that you were like up in arms and you're like, no, I'm not going to do that.
end of the day it's it's your birth like and I think that's what moms have to remember especially first time moms yeah like your provider is there to keep you safe to help you through it but it is your birth experience you can make it how you want it and even if you're in the hospital setting like I was like it's your birth like it You can say no, you can ask questions, you can do all the things.
And I feel like that's really important to remember going into it because it's not obvious that you can push back, but you can.
And you can still, yeah, you can have your birth that you want in a hospital setting.

And I think that is so empowering because most women are going to be giving birth in a hospital.

You did things a little differently where you went to the hospital, but you labored outside for, you know, as long as you wanted to.

And then you went in and you were like, I'm going to do things the way that I want to, regardless of what anyone thinks or says or does.

You give birth to him in... matter of pushes, which is so amazing for a first time mom.
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