About those times you go out of your way to go against your goals and vision

Have you ever caught yourself fighting for a situation you already know you don't want because it shrinks you? In this episode, I’m sharing a moment of clarity I had after spending half an hour chasing down someone in a store to inquire about a job. It will make sense when you hit "play" and have a listen. We try so hard to make an uncomfortable situation comfortable just because it feels safe. We look for little things, like *“well, at least it’s closer to home,”* to justify staying on autopilot. But true liberation means you stop fighting for the bare minimum. It means you stop settling for a minute amount of money, space, love, and you actually start allowing the alignment of your true vision (which for me is working less, earning more, and pouring into my purpose). ### What We’re Unpacking In This Episode: - **Seeking Derailment vs. Allowing Alignment:** What it looks like when you are fighting, inquiring over and over, and pushing for full-time hours in a place that shrinks you, instead of allowing the space to do things that actually align with your vision. - **Making the Uncomfortable Comfortable:** How we look for little things to make a limiting situation feel okay, and how that comfort keeps us limited and stuck on autopilot. - **The Bare Minimum Trap:** The moment you tell yourself that all of your wants, your needs, and your hopes don't matter as long as the basics are taken care of and a little bit of money is coming in. Our Sponsors: \* Check out Bilt and use my code joinbilt.com/SELFCARE for a great deal: https://www.biltrewards.com \* Check out Chime and use my code chime.com/SELFCARE for a great deal: https://www.chime.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy