Sep 8, 2026 · 21 min · 6 segments
A **Dolly Parton quote stopped me in my tracks** and because it really tied together so many conversations I was having in my DMS and with clients about where they are blocking themselves in their…
Courtney QuinnHost
But one, I just heard this audio, essentially, a quote from Dolly Parton that says, if you keep yourself out of the game from the fear of losing, there's no way on this earth you're going to win and in the audio she begins and she talks about how we don't know what's around the corner we don't know what's gonna happen but if we keep ourselves from really trying because we are afraid that we're going to lose then there's absolutely no way that we're gonna win and so I made a reel on this and this all ties together with like three different webs, essentially, because yesterday I just reposted or reshared a quote that talks about how we should be more afraid of wasting our potential than being afraid of embarrassing ourselves.
And I had so many messages about about this quote and just saying like thank you this inspired me I did this just because you posted this or because you shared this and it really just got me thinking because also yesterday was the very first call inside of Homecoming, the four week immersion that is happening now.
And it's so interesting because all of these are really tying together with so many things that high cheating women are struggling with.
And what I saw on the call yesterday and in my DMs when I posted that quote yesterday.
And we really need to stop letting ourselves not play the game, not even try, not even fail, not even embarrass ourselves because we are so afraid of that or because we're afraid of failing or because we're afraid of not winning, right? So we just essentially stop instead.
Okay so I had to talk about this today because it's just sitting with me and I want to talk about like the fears that come up why this is happening and give you you know a couple of questions at the end for you to really sit with and think about and hopefully be able to move through this right but What happened yesterday on the homecoming call, I mean, so many fears, so many things were coming up for all of the women, but... one of the, one of the patterns that we could really see was the perfectionist loop, right? So I'll start when it's right.
But one, I just heard this audio, essentially, a quote from Dolly Parton that says, if you keep yourself out of the game from the fear of losing, there's no way on this earth you're going to win and in the audio she begins and she talks about how we don't know what's around the corner we don't know what's gonna happen but if we keep ourselves from really trying because we are afraid that we're going to lose then there's absolutely no way that we're gonna win and so I made a reel on this and this all ties together with like three different webs, essentially, because yesterday I just reposted or reshared a quote that talks about how we should be more afraid of wasting our potential than being afraid of embarrassing ourselves.
And I had so many messages about about this quote and just saying like thank you this inspired me I did this just because you posted this or because you shared this and it really just got me thinking because also yesterday was the very first call inside of Homecoming, the four week immersion that is happening now.
And it's so interesting because all of these are really tying together with so many things that high cheating women are struggling with.
And what I saw on the call yesterday and in my DMs when I posted that quote yesterday.
And we really need to stop letting ourselves not play the game, not even try, not even fail, not even embarrass ourselves because we are so afraid of that or because we're afraid of failing or because we're afraid of not winning, right? So we just essentially stop instead.
Okay so I had to talk about this today because it's just sitting with me and I want to talk about like the fears that come up why this is happening and give you you know a couple of questions at the end for you to really sit with and think about and hopefully be able to move through this right but What happened yesterday on the homecoming call, I mean, so many fears, so many things were coming up for all of the women, but... one of the, one of the patterns that we could really see was the perfectionist loop, right? So I'll start when it's right.
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