Beyond Obedience | Dog Training, Dog Behaviour Training, Scared Dogs, Reactive Dogs
Jul 6, 2026 · 31 min · 10 segments
**Hey Dog Lover 🐾** Have you ever worried that your dog doesn't have enough dog friends? Do you feel guilty when your dog isn't interested in greeting every person or playing with every dog they…
We've all had it happen, right? You're out on a walk, your dog sees another dog, or a person, or a squirrel, bicycle, whatever.
Put in your thing of choice there.
Could be a leaf blowing [laughs] across the street, whatever.
And suddenly, they start popping off.
They're barking and lunging and making a scene, and then you notice it, right? People start staring.
[laughs] Now you're feeling a little embarrassed.
You're wondering what they're thinking.
You're wondering if they're judging you.
They are.
Uh, and then you're wondering if they think you're a terrible dog owner, and you practically feel the heat rising in your face.
And do you know who isn't worried about any of that? Your dog.
It's true.
[laughs] Your dog, your dog does not care what those people think, not even a little bit.
Your dog isn't standing there thinking, "Oh my gosh, this is so embarrassing.
What are the neighbors gonna say? I hope nobody posts this on Facebook." Your dog does not care, not a care in the world.
Not a care in the world.
But humans, oh, humans, we spend an awful lot of time worrying about what other people think.
Even, and I'm gonna say this, 'cause I am a people pleaser, even if you're sitting there going, "I don't.
I don't care what anyone thinks," you do.
You kinda do.
But dogs, not so much.
[gentle music] And I think that understanding that difference might completely change how you think about your dog's relationship.
Let's get into it.
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We've all had it happen, right? You're out on a walk, your dog sees another dog, or a person, or a squirrel, bicycle, whatever.
Put in your thing of choice there.
Could be a leaf blowing [laughs] across the street, whatever.
And suddenly, they start popping off.
They're barking and lunging and making a scene, and then you notice it, right? People start staring.
[laughs] Now you're feeling a little embarrassed.
You're wondering what they're thinking.
You're wondering if they're judging you.
They are.
Uh, and then you're wondering if they think you're a terrible dog owner, and you practically feel the heat rising in your face.
And do you know who isn't worried about any of that? Your dog.
It's true.
[laughs] Your dog, your dog does not care what those people think, not even a little bit.
Your dog isn't standing there thinking, "Oh my gosh, this is so embarrassing.
What are the neighbors gonna say? I hope nobody posts this on Facebook." Your dog does not care, not a care in the world.
Not a care in the world.
But humans, oh, humans, we spend an awful lot of time worrying about what other people think.
Even, and I'm gonna say this, 'cause I am a people pleaser, even if you're sitting there going, "I don't.
I don't care what anyone thinks," you do.
You kinda do.
But dogs, not so much.
[gentle music] And I think that understanding that difference might completely change how you think about your dog's relationship.
Let's get into it.