Jul 15, 2026 · 32 min · 9 segments
“The language of synchronicities is the language of the other side” – so says Janell Flores Bolte, author of *Death, A Love Story.* This conversation is a fascinating one, ranging from how the brain…
Janelle Flores-BolteGuest
Diane HullettHost
And there's something so moving to me about this whole idea of continuing bonds.
And that's a phrase that really means when someone dies, our connection with them doesn't necessarily end.
And we... there's actually a fair amount of research and a fair amount of personal experience that people have with that, often through signs, often through symbols, often through synchronicities, that kind of thing.
So I think it's so moving that you, you know, I mean, tell us a little about you and John, but like that your experience was that when John died, your relationship changed, but it didn't end.
And that you said to me, As we were chatting before recording, you actually know more about him through what's happened after his crossing through death.
She says, well, you can either believe it's lights out and there's nothing, or you can believe that possibly there's more connection than we know.
Which one is a more healing story? Which one makes a difference to people? And she kind of leans towards, you know, the healing one because it changes our whole experience of death and dying if we believe that there's something more on the other side.
So you just back up and tell us a little about you and John and your family and how that unfolded.
I think that you said exactly what I was going to kick off with saying was that the relationship doesn't end, it changes.
And this is what I often tell clients is that you are going to you're gonna have to find a new language with which to communicate.
And that language is, it can be music, it can be, as you said, signs, the most uncanny signs have come through.
I have had some of the most profound experiences of John and his presence in nature.
And so I think I want to choose, I choose to believe that everything is a miracle because the alternative is that it's pretty bleak.
And there's something so moving to me about this whole idea of continuing bonds.
And that's a phrase that really means when someone dies, our connection with them doesn't necessarily end.
And we... there's actually a fair amount of research and a fair amount of personal experience that people have with that, often through signs, often through symbols, often through synchronicities, that kind of thing.
So I think it's so moving that you, you know, I mean, tell us a little about you and John, but like that your experience was that when John died, your relationship changed, but it didn't end.
And that you said to me, As we were chatting before recording, you actually know more about him through what's happened after his crossing through death.
She says, well, you can either believe it's lights out and there's nothing, or you can believe that possibly there's more connection than we know.
Which one is a more healing story? Which one makes a difference to people? And she kind of leans towards, you know, the healing one because it changes our whole experience of death and dying if we believe that there's something more on the other side.
So you just back up and tell us a little about you and John and your family and how that unfolded.
I think that you said exactly what I was going to kick off with saying was that the relationship doesn't end, it changes.
And this is what I often tell clients is that you are going to you're gonna have to find a new language with which to communicate.
And that language is, it can be music, it can be, as you said, signs, the most uncanny signs have come through.
I have had some of the most profound experiences of John and his presence in nature.
And so I think I want to choose, I choose to believe that everything is a miracle because the alternative is that it's pretty bleak.
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