Bronwyn FletcherHost
So terms you will hear about today, like food rules and food stories and eating blueprints, give us new reference points.

They help us separate things that previously looked like one big tangled mess, and they allow us to see structure instead of personal failure.

We also need new ways to visualize and organize the problem because the moment you can see eating as layers instead of one undifferentiated behavior, then new explanations do become possible.

What looked like a lack of discipline might turn out to be a food story, or what looked like binging is most likely an eating system taking down the emotional temperature.

But the most important reason to have new concepts and language is to stop the paralyzing effects of self-blame and shame.

When we can move beyond blame and shame, we stop asking, "What's wrong with me?" And start asking, "What's happening here?" That's the question that opens inquiry, and inquiry is where new reasons and solutions emerge.

So terms you will hear about today, like food rules and food stories and eating blueprints, give us new reference points.

They help us separate things that previously looked like one big tangled mess, and they allow us to see structure instead of personal failure.

We also need new ways to visualize and organize the problem because the moment you can see eating as layers instead of one undifferentiated behavior, then new explanations do become possible.

What looked like a lack of discipline might turn out to be a food story, or what looked like binging is most likely an eating system taking down the emotional temperature.

But the most important reason to have new concepts and language is to stop the paralyzing effects of self-blame and shame.

When we can move beyond blame and shame, we stop asking, "What's wrong with me?" And start asking, "What's happening here?" That's the question that opens inquiry, and inquiry is where new reasons and solutions emerge.
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