May 27, 2026 · 33 min · 10 segments
Life rarely unfolds exactly the way we planned. Careers shift. Relationships change. Expectations break. And sometimes, the hardest part is not what happened… but letting go of what we thought life…
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Mm-hmm.
Um, but, like, what does that look like, and why? Like, w- why do you, why do you think you have, like, this need to be that way?
Yeah, I mean, I've, I've thought about this a lot, um, just in day to day because, you know, as you started I- off, life doesn't go according to plan.
So any time that happens, any time the road is not a straightforward road, you pause and you think, "Okay, what happened?"
Mm-hmm.
"W- how do I change my perspective?" And I think for me, that need for control comes...
It's, it's directly related to this sense of security.
Mm-hmm.
Like, there, there is a sense of reassurance I get from planning things.
There's this solace I find in knowing, okay, well, I've planned things to go this way.
Mm-hmm.
Um, and so I think it's a sense of security for me.
Okay.
So, and it's, it's like a safety, right?
Yeah, yeah.
Like, it's much easier to kind of know, go ahead when you know what's coming next, or you know what to expect.
Mm-hmm.
Right? Um-
Yeah, I think you nailed it with the safety thing.
Yeah.
And, and I think there's also, like, a certain sort of emotional, like, reassurance.
Right.
Right? To be like, okay, it, it just follows, right?
Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.
The sequence of events.
Mm-hmm.
Um, but, like, what does that look like, and why? Like, w- why do you, why do you think you have, like, this need to be that way?
Yeah, I mean, I've, I've thought about this a lot, um, just in day to day because, you know, as you started I- off, life doesn't go according to plan.
So any time that happens, any time the road is not a straightforward road, you pause and you think, "Okay, what happened?"
Mm-hmm.
"W- how do I change my perspective?" And I think for me, that need for control comes...
It's, it's directly related to this sense of security.
Mm-hmm.
Like, there, there is a sense of reassurance I get from planning things.
There's this solace I find in knowing, okay, well, I've planned things to go this way.
Mm-hmm.
Um, and so I think it's a sense of security for me.
Okay.
So, and it's, it's like a safety, right?
Yeah, yeah.
Like, it's much easier to kind of know, go ahead when you know what's coming next, or you know what to expect.
Mm-hmm.
Right? Um-
Yeah, I think you nailed it with the safety thing.
Yeah.
And, and I think there's also, like, a certain sort of emotional, like, reassurance.
Right.
Right? To be like, okay, it, it just follows, right?
Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.
The sequence of events.
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