Sep 9, 2026 · 29 min · 10 segments
Transactional relationships are a blight on society and modern dating culture. The concept of giving my body to a man in exchange for money or monetary gifts (bags, wigs, flights, etc) is asinine (to…
Okay.
Somehow, women always end up asking me.
I'm telling you guys, like, in my comment section on my live, there's always, how does he reward you? He rewards me with orgasms.
I am 35 and I am having some of the best sex of my adult life.
I mean, as for now.
It could be better in my 40s, in my 50s, hell, in my 60s, if the universe lets me live that long.
It could get better.
As a matter of fact, there's a benchmark now for what I understand pleasure.
There are things that I have felt with Habibi that I swear I am not exaggerating when I say I have never felt those things with any of the guys I dated in my 20s.
I believe that I was having great sex with these guys.
Like, Habibi has managed to unseat my former number one.
And, I mean, the guy that was number one, we were actually in a not-so-healthy dynamic.
We were.
It was not a great dynamic.
I had to give up both the sexual relationship and the friendship we had built for years before we even started seeking together.
That's how unhealthy the dynamic was.
But even then, I believed that the sex was great because he would breadcrumb me with it.
Ignore me for weeks.
Treat me like shit.
Play games.
And then one day, super sweet, or for two weeks, my goodness, the perfect fucking gentleman cooking for me.
We're going out.
He's like, spend three nights with me in my house.
Like, stay here.
Okay.
Somehow, women always end up asking me.
I'm telling you guys, like, in my comment section on my live, there's always, how does he reward you? He rewards me with orgasms.
I am 35 and I am having some of the best sex of my adult life.
I mean, as for now.
It could be better in my 40s, in my 50s, hell, in my 60s, if the universe lets me live that long.
It could get better.
As a matter of fact, there's a benchmark now for what I understand pleasure.
There are things that I have felt with Habibi that I swear I am not exaggerating when I say I have never felt those things with any of the guys I dated in my 20s.
I believe that I was having great sex with these guys.
Like, Habibi has managed to unseat my former number one.
And, I mean, the guy that was number one, we were actually in a not-so-healthy dynamic.
We were.
It was not a great dynamic.
I had to give up both the sexual relationship and the friendship we had built for years before we even started seeking together.
That's how unhealthy the dynamic was.
But even then, I believed that the sex was great because he would breadcrumb me with it.
Ignore me for weeks.
Treat me like shit.
Play games.
And then one day, super sweet, or for two weeks, my goodness, the perfect fucking gentleman cooking for me.
We're going out.
He's like, spend three nights with me in my house.
Like, stay here.
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