Sep 29, 2026 · 31 min · 7 segments
Hello my sweet listeners, I took a little break from the podcast to sell my soul to capitalism, but we're back up now. Enjoy this episode about my dating philosophy. Mwah! This episode was…
that I don't want to sell my cat to a man in exchange for his money, time, attention, gifts, etc., does not mean that I am judging any babe or guy who engages in transactional dating.
Yeah, you know, on my live a couple of days ago, a guy, a young guy in his early 20s came on my live and asked me how he can go about getting a sugar mommy.
Yay, wahala.
a sugar mummy.
And I said, oh, babe, I can help you with that for many reasons.
One, I don't support transactional dating.
Two, you are young.
You are very young.
I would never, if I had a 22-year-old brother or sister, I would never tell them to go down that path.
I would never.
That's my general rule of thumb.
If I can't speak to my sister about it, like if it's something that I can encourage my younger sister to do, and my younger sister has grown.
If I can't tell my younger sister, oh yeah, do this confidently, I would never tell another person's sibling or another person's child.
That is murky waters.
I don't get involved in that, yeah? But yeah, guys are selling it too.
And his defense was, I'm skilled.
Why shouldn't I get paid for it? Period, boo.
I mean, facts on facts on facts.
You should get paid for your skills.
But I cannot help you with that.
I cannot encourage you to do that.
Plus, at that age, I'm fairly certain you are still a dependent.
I know it's different for guys where they're expected to be more mature.
after a certain age and to get out of the house after a certain age.
But at 22, you're probably still in uni or just about to finish up, depending on what kind of program you're doing.
that I don't want to sell my cat to a man in exchange for his money, time, attention, gifts, etc., does not mean that I am judging any babe or guy who engages in transactional dating.
Yeah, you know, on my live a couple of days ago, a guy, a young guy in his early 20s came on my live and asked me how he can go about getting a sugar mommy.
Yay, wahala.
a sugar mummy.
And I said, oh, babe, I can help you with that for many reasons.
One, I don't support transactional dating.
Two, you are young.
You are very young.
I would never, if I had a 22-year-old brother or sister, I would never tell them to go down that path.
I would never.
That's my general rule of thumb.
If I can't speak to my sister about it, like if it's something that I can encourage my younger sister to do, and my younger sister has grown.
If I can't tell my younger sister, oh yeah, do this confidently, I would never tell another person's sibling or another person's child.
That is murky waters.
I don't get involved in that, yeah? But yeah, guys are selling it too.
And his defense was, I'm skilled.
Why shouldn't I get paid for it? Period, boo.
I mean, facts on facts on facts.
You should get paid for your skills.
But I cannot help you with that.
I cannot encourage you to do that.
Plus, at that age, I'm fairly certain you are still a dependent.
I know it's different for guys where they're expected to be more mature.
after a certain age and to get out of the house after a certain age.
But at 22, you're probably still in uni or just about to finish up, depending on what kind of program you're doing.
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