LIVE SHOW - OCTOBER 10TH 2026

Now, let me tell you a little bit about this show because it's really interesting.

So for a couple of months this year, I did this radio show at 16.

I still do the show, but I haven't done it in a couple of weeks, to be honest, just because of work and everything that's been going on, right? But the radio show is called Love and Shaggy.

There is a story behind Love and Shaggy, the name of the show, right? How I came up with it.

And I think I'm going to share a little bit about that story at my live show.

But the point of Love and Shaggy, because Love and Shaggy is very different from what I do on TikTok and Instagram on my podcast.

Love and Shaggy is really less about sex education and more about me just talking about my experiences with dating and trying to find love, quote unquote, trying to find romantic love and just generally my experiences with some of the guys that I've dated.

Not all bad experiences, by the way, because I'm never going to lie.

I really don't like how Black love, African love, is presented in media there's a lot of trauma and a lot of heartbreak and I know heartbreak is part of the game that's true but sometimes that trauma I don't like it because it makes it feel like we are not deserving of softness we're not deserving of true love we're not deserving of protection especially how Black and African women are written in shows, in movies, and even sometimes in books.

It almost seems like we're just hardened by our experiences with love.

So what I do, instead of just focusing on the heartbreak or the pain or whatever the case may be, I like to talk about the fun I had with these guys, even if at the end, some of them did end up breaking my heart.

That's why it's called Love and Shege.

So Shege is a Nigerian slang for my non-Nigerian listeners.

Shake is a Nigerian slang that just basically means somebody just putting you through the ringer, okay? I think a synonymous slang that a lot of people might understand is being put through the ringer, right? It's just like generally a bad experience, like, ah, That person showed me Shage, which means that they just, they put me through it.

They put me through hell.

Okay.

But there's a balance because it's love and Shage.

Because I truly believe that before you find that love of your life, or before you find that person that finally sticks, you know, or before you meet that person that shows you that they were worth waiting for, you have to experience a little bit of shaggy.

So this means that at my live storytelling show, I'm not just going to talk about sex.

I'm just going to make it spicy.

It's not just going to be about the kinks I explored.

I'm also going to talk a little bit about the shaggy I've experienced with some of the guys I've dated.