You know what I mean? And I said what I always say whenever people bring up love and romance as it pertains to dating.
And I said, I've taken love and romance off the table.
And when I say romance, I'm referring to how Hollywood defines romance, what we see in movies and TVs.
Oh, he buys you flowers.
He takes you out on dates.
He's sweet to you.
ETC, ETC, right? There is nothing wrong with these things, right? If you love getting flowers, that's okay.
If you love going out on dates, you want a man to buy you gifts, you want him to show his affection for you through the ways he spends money on you, that is completely fine.
But that's what I mean when I say I've taken romance feelings off the table.
And the only thing that is on the table is pleasure, 100% pleasure.
I am there for the pleasure.
The most pleasure I can experience in one session, I am there for that.
What Habibi, in this case, because he is the one that is currently dominating me, what Habibi can do to me, what he can do for me, that is what I am there for, right? Now, if people really pay attention to my story times, there actually is a lot of romance.
It's just not presented in the way that people are used to.
Again, they're used to what they see in movies and They are used to what they read in fiction books, right? And that's okay.
But I am a lover girl at heart.
I say this all the time.
I have a big, big, big heart.
Like I love deep.
I love long.
I can be very loyal to a fault.
I can be so loyal that someone could literally be treating me badly forever.
And I'm like, no, I love this person.
We're not perfect.
Nobody's perfect.
You know what I mean? And I said what I always say whenever people bring up love and romance as it pertains to dating.
And I said, I've taken love and romance off the table.
And when I say romance, I'm referring to how Hollywood defines romance, what we see in movies and TVs.
Oh, he buys you flowers.
He takes you out on dates.
He's sweet to you.
ETC, ETC, right? There is nothing wrong with these things, right? If you love getting flowers, that's okay.
If you love going out on dates, you want a man to buy you gifts, you want him to show his affection for you through the ways he spends money on you, that is completely fine.
But that's what I mean when I say I've taken romance feelings off the table.
And the only thing that is on the table is pleasure, 100% pleasure.
I am there for the pleasure.
The most pleasure I can experience in one session, I am there for that.
What Habibi, in this case, because he is the one that is currently dominating me, what Habibi can do to me, what he can do for me, that is what I am there for, right? Now, if people really pay attention to my story times, there actually is a lot of romance.
It's just not presented in the way that people are used to.
Again, they're used to what they see in movies and They are used to what they read in fiction books, right? And that's okay.
But I am a lover girl at heart.
I say this all the time.
I have a big, big, big heart.
Like I love deep.
I love long.
I can be very loyal to a fault.
I can be so loyal that someone could literally be treating me badly forever.
And I'm like, no, I love this person.
We're not perfect.
Nobody's perfect.
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