Sep 27, 2026 · 52 min · 14 segments
If you have ever wondered: “Why do I still get so nervous when I have done this a thousand times?” “How do I stop one bad result from deciding who I am?” “What should I actually be thinking about…
Sam FrickerGuestTess BrouwerHost
Layne BeachleyHost
I wonder if, um, we'd have to go back... 'Cause I watched that, the Rafa documentary-

I remember when a ball knocked over one of the water bottles during a match, and I think it unraveled him.
And I think about, I mean, I'm blessed every day that I get to work with LB, and she, we talk about humanizing what athletes use i- like, in these pressure moments in your everyday life.
So your diving board would sometimes be my bed-bath routine with my son B- Benji and the chaos of my house.
And I always have to say to myself, like, "What kind of mum do I wanna be?" Like, present, loving, and calm.
And it helps me, like, when I know I've got 50,000 emails, a, like, lots of people that are trying to get ahold of me, all of the pressure going on, if I'm not present, kind, and calm, then I can switch out.

I know I, I often refer to a process when I tell the story about riding a 50-foot wave, 'cause there's so many variables, there's so many things outside of our control, and if you keep focusing on them, similar to your quote around the darkness, that's what you'll cont- tend to focus on, and what you focus on expands.

I wonder if, um, we'd have to go back... 'Cause I watched that, the Rafa documentary-

I remember when a ball knocked over one of the water bottles during a match, and I think it unraveled him.
And I think about, I mean, I'm blessed every day that I get to work with LB, and she, we talk about humanizing what athletes use i- like, in these pressure moments in your everyday life.
So your diving board would sometimes be my bed-bath routine with my son B- Benji and the chaos of my house.
And I always have to say to myself, like, "What kind of mum do I wanna be?" Like, present, loving, and calm.
And it helps me, like, when I know I've got 50,000 emails, a, like, lots of people that are trying to get ahold of me, all of the pressure going on, if I'm not present, kind, and calm, then I can switch out.

I know I, I often refer to a process when I tell the story about riding a 50-foot wave, 'cause there's so many variables, there's so many things outside of our control, and if you keep focusing on them, similar to your quote around the darkness, that's what you'll cont- tend to focus on, and what you focus on expands.
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