Hold My Beer Energy
He defines an uncompromising action mindset
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Marisa LeeHost
Now, I don't mean to be disrespectful, but when I think of a man going through a midlife crisis, I think of them going out and buying a red car or leaving their wife and trying to find someone who's 30 years younger.

But sincerely, I do want to start by asking you, how do you define a midlife crisis? Like, what is that? What does that look like?
Well, what I'd like to define, first of all, is the idea of what everyone has labeled a midlife crisis.
Most of us, when we think of The stereotypical midlife man, maybe at the end of his career, maybe a little overweight, a little balding, a little like wanting some of that energy from when he was younger.
Instead of doing something that is proactive and to fix the problem of what I call kind of misalignment of your values, it is the stereotype that we all go out and we buy our way into, well, this is gonna make me feel better, almost like a dessert or a present.
So I'm not happy, I don't really know why, but this affair, this food, this marijuana, this drinking, this bag of Cheetos, this jet ski, maybe that's the answer.
And so men that aren't used to speaking about their feelings for 20 years is kind of, Marisa, like a, it's kind of a kettle.
Water that you put on 30 years ago and you just keep boiling the frog a little more and a little more.
And it's this time in our life as men and women too, that that starts to boil over if we haven't been looking after our own dreams.
And so for me, my story was going to sleep for 25 years as a provider right off the bat with what I call a life of misalignment with the wrong partner.

Now, I don't mean to be disrespectful, but when I think of a man going through a midlife crisis, I think of them going out and buying a red car or leaving their wife and trying to find someone who's 30 years younger.

But sincerely, I do want to start by asking you, how do you define a midlife crisis? Like, what is that? What does that look like?
Well, what I'd like to define, first of all, is the idea of what everyone has labeled a midlife crisis.
Most of us, when we think of The stereotypical midlife man, maybe at the end of his career, maybe a little overweight, a little balding, a little like wanting some of that energy from when he was younger.
Instead of doing something that is proactive and to fix the problem of what I call kind of misalignment of your values, it is the stereotype that we all go out and we buy our way into, well, this is gonna make me feel better, almost like a dessert or a present.
So I'm not happy, I don't really know why, but this affair, this food, this marijuana, this drinking, this bag of Cheetos, this jet ski, maybe that's the answer.
And so men that aren't used to speaking about their feelings for 20 years is kind of, Marisa, like a, it's kind of a kettle.
Water that you put on 30 years ago and you just keep boiling the frog a little more and a little more.
And it's this time in our life as men and women too, that that starts to boil over if we haven't been looking after our own dreams.
And so for me, my story was going to sleep for 25 years as a provider right off the bat with what I call a life of misalignment with the wrong partner.
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