Jul 31, 2026 · 33 min · 11 segments
Welcome to the very first **Community Hang Outs** bonus episode! Today, I’m joined by a very special guest and close friend from our amazing community as we chat about dating, friendships, and finding…
Yeah.
And you're that for me.
Yeah, yeah.
You have brought me out of my shell, as well as many other people in the server, like everyone that I've met through the server.
brings a different light into my life it's just a nice place to be I
think it
like
there are days where we we all help each other out and we give advice and we all support each other but then we also are just it's just so nice to have a place to go and have a laugh with people who have got similar mindsets and similar humor and and it it really does just feel like a no judgment zone i don't go wrong fey would tell you that we we do judge but we don't and and it's it's but it comes from a pace of i think you've got to have that um kind of light bullying light humor in there to take away from some of
this we're all so chaotic yeah also well me more than most but here we are yeah yeah um but that is what breaks the day up it does like having that sense like i've said in my previous podcast having that light and laughter does really get you through the dark days and it reminds you that your chronic illnesses doesn't define whether you can have a good or a bad day if if you're having those laughs with people you're still, I know for me, it grounds me a little bit.
I'm like going through this dark, foggy place.
And then one of you will say something that is absolutely outrageous.
And I start laughing.
It's like, whoa, okay, my mood's changing drastically here.
You know, and I feel like that is probably the same for most people in there.
And A lot of us are secluded.
A lot of us.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I think, you know, having a chronic illness, it can be a really lonely place.
Especially if you're, you know, like me and you don't really go out.
And you, I know before I had the server and I kind of met you all that I was very lonely.
And because my closest friendships, they were long distance friendships.
And you get to a point where you don't want to, if you've only got two people in your life, you don't want to constantly message them because you feel like you're being a burden.
Yes.
But then you're isolated because you're essentially living inside your home.
Yeah.
And you're that for me.
Yeah, yeah.
You have brought me out of my shell, as well as many other people in the server, like everyone that I've met through the server.
brings a different light into my life it's just a nice place to be I
think it
like
there are days where we we all help each other out and we give advice and we all support each other but then we also are just it's just so nice to have a place to go and have a laugh with people who have got similar mindsets and similar humor and and it it really does just feel like a no judgment zone i don't go wrong fey would tell you that we we do judge but we don't and and it's it's but it comes from a pace of i think you've got to have that um kind of light bullying light humor in there to take away from some of
this we're all so chaotic yeah also well me more than most but here we are yeah yeah um but that is what breaks the day up it does like having that sense like i've said in my previous podcast having that light and laughter does really get you through the dark days and it reminds you that your chronic illnesses doesn't define whether you can have a good or a bad day if if you're having those laughs with people you're still, I know for me, it grounds me a little bit.
I'm like going through this dark, foggy place.
And then one of you will say something that is absolutely outrageous.
And I start laughing.
It's like, whoa, okay, my mood's changing drastically here.
You know, and I feel like that is probably the same for most people in there.
And A lot of us are secluded.
A lot of us.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I think, you know, having a chronic illness, it can be a really lonely place.
Especially if you're, you know, like me and you don't really go out.
And you, I know before I had the server and I kind of met you all that I was very lonely.
And because my closest friendships, they were long distance friendships.
And you get to a point where you don't want to, if you've only got two people in your life, you don't want to constantly message them because you feel like you're being a burden.
Yes.
But then you're isolated because you're essentially living inside your home.
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