
Zachary Zane
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Sep 5, 2026
Zachary Zane: “I saw myself having sex in order to write about it—which made it less fun.”
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1:32Zachary ZaneGUEST
knowledge of, oh, I just want to have a dedicated readership so that way when the book comes out, I can obviously push the book.
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1:41JerryHOST
Well, I just want to then repeat for everybody who's recently joined us or who's going to be listening to this later, I'm talking to the brilliant sex columnist Zachary Zane, who, as I just mentioned, his memoir and manifesto, Boy Slut, has been out for three years.
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1:58JerryHOST
And I want to say I really love the book for many reasons, but I'm going to go in a direction I don't think you talk about a lot, which is you taught me a lot about your, how to understand OCD.
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2:10JerryHOST
Like I have friends with OCD and I thought I understood it, but I think it's like the cliche of like Lena Dunham and like touching or putting things in her ear or something like that.
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21:42Zachary ZaneGUEST
You know what I mean? I like the blending of all of this.
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21:44Zachary ZaneGUEST
So for me, it's why I would think that
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21:46JerryHOST
Zachary Zane is omnisexual because you're omnivorous and your sexual
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21:49Zachary ZaneGUEST
appetite.
188: Slutty and Proud: Bi Men, Sex Parties, HPV & Fire Island Fuckfests feat. Boyslut Author Zachary Zane
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0:45VeeHOST
And I'm V.
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0:46ElleHOST
And today we have Zachary Zane with us.
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0:49ElleHOST
He is a Brooklyn-based sex columnist and author whose work centers on sexuality, culture, and the LGBT community.
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0:59ElleHOST
He's the author of the critically acclaimed book Boy Slut: A Memoir and a Manifesto.
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1:26ElleHOST
His sex and relationship columns have appeared in Men's Health, Cosmopolitan, and bi.org, among others.
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1:33ElleHOST
His essays have also been featured in New York Times, Rolling Stone, Washington Post, GQ, Playboy, and more.
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1:41ElleHOST
Guys, everybody welcome Zachary Zane.
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1:43Zachary ZaneGUEST
Yes.
What Grindr Bios Really Mean: Sex, Vibes and the Search for Connection EP 787
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42:14Steve VHOST
And- You know.
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42:15Steve VHOST
But, uh, as I mentioned, if you're attracted to someone for any reason, including that they look like you, that's valid and you should be able to have sex with or date them, says Zachary Zane, who's been on our show.
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42:28Cody Maurice DoggetteHOST
Nice.
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42:28Steve VHOST
And I don't think there's anything ...
Brian and Judson have a fivesome with repeat hookups Jonah Wheeler, Joel Someone, and Daddy Kylex and talk helping each other navigate the gay porn industry, making spontaneous content together, consent for love language, and transparency on the apps
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57:15Brian Rubin-SowersHOST
Um, are you guys...
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57:15Brian Rubin-SowersHOST
Do you know Zachary Zane? He wrote the book Boy Slut.
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57:18Brian Rubin-SowersHOST
Highly recommend it.
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57:19Joel SomeoneGUEST
Oh.