Mm-hmm.

I mean, what do you, what do you do [laughs] in that moment? Um, at the time, I had five children.

Um, so I said, you know, "I will take care of this," but I also didn't wanna fall apart in front of everyone.

So we finished getting ready for Halloween.

We went trick-or-treating with the, with the little kids.

Came back and watched a scary movie.

I got everybody off to bed.

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