
Tonglen
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Oct 29, 2026
The Mind You Live In: David Nichtern on Buddhist Psychology & Living an Awake Life
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40:10Sue HitzmannHOST
And I think grief and loss is massive for people.
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40:13David NichternGUEST
Well, and this is where the practice of Tonglen, I don't know if you've been exposed to Tonglen, which is a Mahayana Buddhist practice, sending and taking.
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40:22David NichternGUEST
And what you do is you reverse the ordinary polarity of trying to keep suffering at bay, and you take it in.
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40:30David NichternGUEST
you let it come in on the in-breath.
Universalizing: Transforming Pain and Pleasure into Love and Compassion #31 [rebroadcast]
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13:18Scott SnibbeHOST
Not fleeing pain and pleasure like an ascetic, but using pain and pleasure as fuel that moves them toward a more enlightened way of living and being.
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13:28Scott SnibbeHOST
In our last episode, we practiced a meditation on one of the most powerful of these techniques, called Tonglen.
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13:35Scott SnibbeHOST
Today's technique of universalization is equally powerful but far simpler to practice in everyday life.
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13:43Scott SnibbeHOST
In a previous episode, we practiced a meditation on one of the most powerful of these techniques called Tonglen.
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13:50Scott SnibbeHOST
Today's technique of universalization I find equally powerful but far simpler to practice in everyday life.
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13:57Scott SnibbeHOST
I've also found that students of meditation can find universalization easier to practice because it's free from some of those initial intense feelings of fear or pain that one might have when attempting Tonglen's heroic taking on of others' suffering.
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14:12Scott SnibbeHOST
I'm excited to share this other technique with you now, the technique of universalizing.
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14:19Scott SnibbeHOST
Universalizing is both simple and profound.
Mantra Meditation
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21:19Kevin DwinnellGUEST
One of the tools that I like that we use is, sorry, I'm looking for the time because I want to make sure I stay on target.
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21:29Kevin DwinnellGUEST
One of the things that we teach Tonglen, which is a giving and receiving.
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21:34Kevin DwinnellGUEST
And that's a great tool to incorporate compassion for others.
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21:39Kevin DwinnellGUEST
Because Tonglen, you try to take out something negative in the world and you breathe back love and compassion.
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21:45Kevin DwinnellGUEST
So there's plenty of times throughout the day, whether it's my coworkers or other drivers on the road, people that just get under my skin.
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21:56Kevin DwinnellGUEST
And in the moment when I'm wanting to flare up and get angry, I realize I know I'm not the only one in this situation.
19 MINS LATER
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40:54Kevin DwinnellGUEST
Like as we develop our practice, we take on these skills.
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40:58Kevin DwinnellGUEST
But as we've learned them, then they all become a fusion of what we might do in our morning or evening, whenever you meditate, during your meditation practice.
Between Sacred Meaning and Lived Experience
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16:46Naomi BasuGUEST
There are certain practices that I do.
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16:52Naomi BasuGUEST
I mean, meditation in general, and then certain types of meditation I like doing occasionally, like Tonglen.
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16:59Martin BensonHOST
Yeah, mm-hmm.
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17:01Naomi BasuGUEST
And then some of the visualization exercises that have been discussed in some of the books I've read.
When Wisdom Becomes Compassion
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15:21speaker_0NARRATOR
And that's why
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15:22Matthew Palden GochaGUEST
Lojong and Tonglen practices are so important for us.
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15:26Matthew Palden GochaGUEST
And he said, this is really these practices are great for us beginners.
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15:31Matthew Palden GochaGUEST
And he even
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15:33Matthew Palden GochaGUEST
However, if we don't have some stability in our minds, it can lead to excessive emotion and attachment.
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15:40Matthew Palden GochaGUEST
And we have to be very careful because that can overwhelm us and then burn us out.
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15:46Matthew Palden GochaGUEST
I've been doing Tonglen for a long time.
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15:48Matthew Palden GochaGUEST
I watch the news and it's just never ending.
[2/2] The Flight of the Garuda — Chapters 4–6 (Santa Cruz, Jan 2019)
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4:07speaker_2UNKNOWN
If I may, I have a follow-up.
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4:09speaker_2UNKNOWN
The biggest hook that I have is the one that you referred to yesterday when you talked about Tomlin and thwapping.
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4:16speaker_2UNKNOWN
I have not received the thwapping instructions, and I have to say that my biggest problem is the bludgeoned kitten, if you know what I mean, the reality that there's something.
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4:26speaker_2UNKNOWN
I mean, that just really crushes me.
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5:11Yeshe KaytupHOST
I associate myself with you and perceive the levels of suffering.
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5:18Yeshe KaytupHOST
This I would not do normally to a human being.
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5:21Yeshe KaytupHOST
I don't, you don't do Tonglen on people without their permission, please.
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5:27Yeshe KaytupHOST
So, but I have your permission.
[1/2] The Flight of the Garuda — Chapters 4–6 (Santa Cruz, Jan 2019)
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14:09Yeshe KaytupHOST
That's self-focusedness, the opposite of Bodhisitta.
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14:13Yeshe KaytupHOST
There are methods like Tonglen and certain Chenrezig practices that make it open faster and stay open more.
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14:22Yeshe KaytupHOST
Someday you can request those.
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14:25Yeshe KaytupHOST
Not today's teaching.
1 HR 15 MINS LATER
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89:16Yeshe KaytupHOST
There's nothing there to be overwhelmed if you do that right.
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89:24Yeshe KaytupHOST
Don't forget to thwap it.
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89:31Yeshe KaytupHOST
It's an important part of Tonglen.
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89:32Yeshe KaytupHOST
In fact, I think it's what Tonglen is for.
The Practice of Tonglen — Cultivating Bodhicitta (Tso Pema, Oct 2019)
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0:07Yeshe KaytupHOST
So there are a number of ways of doing Tonglen.
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0:12Yeshe KaytupHOST
Many Tibetans like to do Tonglen visualizing the six realms and the hell realms and things like that.
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0:22Yeshe KaytupHOST
But for Westerners, just with the way we've been brought up and with our past, that never feels very real to us.
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0:34Yeshe KaytupHOST
We can come to believe, except maybe to Catholics.
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0:41Yeshe KaytupHOST
But for most of us, it's really hard to emotionally believe in the hell realms as the Tibetans describe them.
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0:51Yeshe KaytupHOST
And for Tonglen to work, you actually have to invest yourself in it.
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0:57Yeshe KaytupHOST
So for that reason, we generally work with animals.
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1:02Yeshe KaytupHOST
Animals that we see with our eyes, bugs, birds, fish.
How to Die — Teachings from the Tibetan Buddhist Perspective (May 2020)
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75:17Yeshe KaytupHOST
I will not be teaching that full practice online, I don't think.
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75:24Yeshe KaytupHOST
I think I want people around when we do that, but I will teach the practices up to the final part of that online, which would be Tonglen, which I will teach online, but as a limited retreat And there will be circumstances and prerequisites.
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75:51NyandoHOST
It took me to
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75:53Yeshe KaytupHOST
really get that practice working about a year of concerted work on it in my cave.
[2/3] Dzogchen Teachings — Intermediate (Tso Pema, Nov 2019)
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61:15Yeshe KaytupHOST
Now, to decide on one thing is the second vital point, is to decide that this is the practice you're doing.
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61:24Yeshe KaytupHOST
However, if you have the experience of a big dead old nothing, if it seems dark, not vital, your view, then you can do some Chenrezig practice, which I've already taught, or some Tonglen, together, not at the same time, in different sessions with your Zogchen, because that will lead you through symbols, through your unconscious mind, to directly perceive the vitality.
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62:08Yeshe KaytupHOST
of open awareness.
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62:11Yeshe KaytupHOST
The vitality of open awareness is Bodhisitta.
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