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Oct 29, 2026

Sue HitzmannHOST
40:10
And I think grief and loss is massive for people.
David NichternGUEST
40:13
Well, and this is where the practice of Tonglen, I don't know if you've been exposed to Tonglen, which is a Mahayana Buddhist practice, sending and taking.
David NichternGUEST
40:22
And what you do is you reverse the ordinary polarity of trying to keep suffering at bay, and you take it in.
David NichternGUEST
40:30
you let it come in on the in-breath.
Scott SnibbeHOST
13:18
Not fleeing pain and pleasure like an ascetic, but using pain and pleasure as fuel that moves them toward a more enlightened way of living and being.
Scott SnibbeHOST
13:28
In our last episode, we practiced a meditation on one of the most powerful of these techniques, called Tonglen.
Scott SnibbeHOST
13:35
Today's technique of universalization is equally powerful but far simpler to practice in everyday life.
Scott SnibbeHOST
13:43
In a previous episode, we practiced a meditation on one of the most powerful of these techniques called Tonglen.
Scott SnibbeHOST
13:50
Today's technique of universalization I find equally powerful but far simpler to practice in everyday life.
Scott SnibbeHOST
13:57
I've also found that students of meditation can find universalization easier to practice because it's free from some of those initial intense feelings of fear or pain that one might have when attempting Tonglen's heroic taking on of others' suffering.
Scott SnibbeHOST
14:12
I'm excited to share this other technique with you now, the technique of universalizing.
Scott SnibbeHOST
14:19
Universalizing is both simple and profound.
Kevin DwinnellGUEST
21:19
One of the tools that I like that we use is, sorry, I'm looking for the time because I want to make sure I stay on target.
Kevin DwinnellGUEST
21:29
One of the things that we teach Tonglen, which is a giving and receiving.
Kevin DwinnellGUEST
21:34
And that's a great tool to incorporate compassion for others.
Kevin DwinnellGUEST
21:39
Because Tonglen, you try to take out something negative in the world and you breathe back love and compassion.
Kevin DwinnellGUEST
21:45
So there's plenty of times throughout the day, whether it's my coworkers or other drivers on the road, people that just get under my skin.
Kevin DwinnellGUEST
21:56
And in the moment when I'm wanting to flare up and get angry, I realize I know I'm not the only one in this situation.

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Kevin DwinnellGUEST
40:54
Like as we develop our practice, we take on these skills.
Kevin DwinnellGUEST
40:58
But as we've learned them, then they all become a fusion of what we might do in our morning or evening, whenever you meditate, during your meditation practice.
Naomi BasuGUEST
16:46
There are certain practices that I do.
Naomi BasuGUEST
16:52
I mean, meditation in general, and then certain types of meditation I like doing occasionally, like Tonglen.
Martin BensonHOST
16:59
Yeah, mm-hmm.
Naomi BasuGUEST
17:01
And then some of the visualization exercises that have been discussed in some of the books I've read.
speaker_0NARRATOR
15:21
And that's why
Matthew Palden GochaGUEST
15:22
Lojong and Tonglen practices are so important for us.
Matthew Palden GochaGUEST
15:26
And he said, this is really these practices are great for us beginners.
Matthew Palden GochaGUEST
15:31
And he even
Matthew Palden GochaGUEST
15:33
However, if we don't have some stability in our minds, it can lead to excessive emotion and attachment.
Matthew Palden GochaGUEST
15:40
And we have to be very careful because that can overwhelm us and then burn us out.
Matthew Palden GochaGUEST
15:46
I've been doing Tonglen for a long time.
Matthew Palden GochaGUEST
15:48
I watch the news and it's just never ending.
speaker_2UNKNOWN
4:07
If I may, I have a follow-up.
speaker_2UNKNOWN
4:09
The biggest hook that I have is the one that you referred to yesterday when you talked about Tomlin and thwapping.
speaker_2UNKNOWN
4:16
I have not received the thwapping instructions, and I have to say that my biggest problem is the bludgeoned kitten, if you know what I mean, the reality that there's something.
speaker_2UNKNOWN
4:26
I mean, that just really crushes me.
Yeshe KaytupHOST
5:11
I associate myself with you and perceive the levels of suffering.
Yeshe KaytupHOST
5:18
This I would not do normally to a human being.
Yeshe KaytupHOST
5:21
I don't, you don't do Tonglen on people without their permission, please.
Yeshe KaytupHOST
5:27
So, but I have your permission.
Yeshe KaytupHOST
14:09
That's self-focusedness, the opposite of Bodhisitta.
Yeshe KaytupHOST
14:13
There are methods like Tonglen and certain Chenrezig practices that make it open faster and stay open more.
Yeshe KaytupHOST
14:22
Someday you can request those.
Yeshe KaytupHOST
14:25
Not today's teaching.

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Yeshe KaytupHOST
89:16
There's nothing there to be overwhelmed if you do that right.
Yeshe KaytupHOST
89:24
Don't forget to thwap it.
Yeshe KaytupHOST
89:31
It's an important part of Tonglen.
Yeshe KaytupHOST
89:32
In fact, I think it's what Tonglen is for.
Yeshe KaytupHOST
0:07
So there are a number of ways of doing Tonglen.
Yeshe KaytupHOST
0:12
Many Tibetans like to do Tonglen visualizing the six realms and the hell realms and things like that.
Yeshe KaytupHOST
0:22
But for Westerners, just with the way we've been brought up and with our past, that never feels very real to us.
Yeshe KaytupHOST
0:34
We can come to believe, except maybe to Catholics.
Yeshe KaytupHOST
0:41
But for most of us, it's really hard to emotionally believe in the hell realms as the Tibetans describe them.
Yeshe KaytupHOST
0:51
And for Tonglen to work, you actually have to invest yourself in it.
Yeshe KaytupHOST
0:57
So for that reason, we generally work with animals.
Yeshe KaytupHOST
1:02
Animals that we see with our eyes, bugs, birds, fish.
Yeshe KaytupHOST
75:17
I will not be teaching that full practice online, I don't think.
Yeshe KaytupHOST
75:24
I think I want people around when we do that, but I will teach the practices up to the final part of that online, which would be Tonglen, which I will teach online, but as a limited retreat And there will be circumstances and prerequisites.
NyandoHOST
75:51
It took me to
Yeshe KaytupHOST
75:53
really get that practice working about a year of concerted work on it in my cave.
Yeshe KaytupHOST
61:15
Now, to decide on one thing is the second vital point, is to decide that this is the practice you're doing.
Yeshe KaytupHOST
61:24
However, if you have the experience of a big dead old nothing, if it seems dark, not vital, your view, then you can do some Chenrezig practice, which I've already taught, or some Tonglen, together, not at the same time, in different sessions with your Zogchen, because that will lead you through symbols, through your unconscious mind, to directly perceive the vitality.
Yeshe KaytupHOST
62:08
of open awareness.
Yeshe KaytupHOST
62:11
The vitality of open awareness is Bodhisitta.

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