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The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate

The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate

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Oct 31, 2026

speaker_3AUDIENCE
0:27
My husband was working hand in hand with God and helping me get through it.
Chris FabryHOST
0:35
Welcome to Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, author of the New York Times bestseller, The Five Love Languages.
Chris FabryHOST
0:41
Today, it's our Dear Gary broadcast for the very last day of October.
Chris FabryHOST
0:47
Time to open the phone lines and hear your questions about the love languages, your marriage, singles issues, and more.

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Gary ChapmanHOST
19:40
We're to love the way God loves and that's loving the unlovely.
Gary ChapmanHOST
19:44
and speaking her primary love language is the most positive influence you can have on her.
Gary ChapmanHOST
19:51
And if you don't know her love language or you don't know what I'm talking about, I would suggest you read the book, The Five Love Languages.
Gary ChapmanHOST
19:59
Many couples have said to me, you know, Gary, that book saved our marriage.
Alex McFarlandHOST
29:59
And you know what? Dr.
Alex McFarlandHOST
30:01
Gary Chapman, who is a dear friend and colleague, he wrote a great book called The Five Love Languages.
Alex McFarlandHOST
30:07
He started a counseling ministry 50 years ago in North Carolina, and there are many such counseling ministries.
Alex McFarlandHOST
30:15
And let me say, folks, if you need somebody to talk to, to go and see a Christian counselor, and many, you know, can even file insurance if it gets to be, you know, prohibitively expensive.
Amber WrightHOST
1:03
Hey friends, welcome back to another episode of Say More with Dr. Amber.
Amber WrightHOST
1:08
Today we're going to have a conversation about what we got wrong about the five love languages or just about love languages in general, but specifically I want to talk about the five love languages as an example.
Amber WrightHOST
1:20
This, okay, okay.
Amber WrightHOST
1:22
So, oh my gosh, there's so much on my mind that we have to work through and I'm going to try to be concise, as concise as I can be.
Amber WrightHOST
1:28
But I saw a video online recently talking about the five love languages.
Amber WrightHOST
1:33
And the lady was totally like, thumbs down.
Amber WrightHOST
1:35
This is whack.
Amber WrightHOST
1:39
Nobody believes this stuff.
AmyHOST
19:34
And I tell them and they still don't hear it.
NickHOST
19:36
I love when we had Gary Chapman on with Five Love Languages and he said he sat and was in therapy with a couple.
NickHOST
19:44
And she's like, my husband's amazing.
NickHOST
19:46
He does everything so well and we get along well and this and that.
Winfred NeelyGUEST
0:23
It has steel in it and is willing to make the hard decisions that are necessary for the highest good and flourishing of the other.
Chris FabryHOST
0:35
Welcome to Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, author of the New York Times bestseller, The Five Love Languages.
Chris FabryHOST
0:42
Today, three little words, easy to say, but oh so hard to do.
Chris FabryHOST
0:47
Three little words that are the basis of just about all our relationships.
Vanessa Van EdwardsHOST
3:32
that adapts the love languages to appreciation languages.
Vanessa Van EdwardsHOST
3:36
I also have a quiz if you wanna take to test yours officially.
Vanessa Van EdwardsHOST
3:39
We're gonna go through all five in the video, but if you wanna take our free little quiz, you can take it as many times as you want.
Vanessa Van EdwardsHOST
3:44
You could also have your friends, family, and colleagues take it so you officially know their love language.
Vanessa Van EdwardsHOST
3:49
It's at scienceofpeople.com slash love dash language, and you can take that as many times as you want.
Vanessa Van EdwardsHOST
3:54
So as we go through these in the video, be sure to take the official quiz and see where your colleagues rank.
Vanessa Van EdwardsHOST
3:59
All right, let's dive in.
Vanessa Van EdwardsHOST
4:12
Appreciation language number one, quality time.
Vanessa Van EdwardsHOST
3:28
Appreciation language is a concept that he developed over time that adapts the love languages to appreciation languages.
Vanessa Van EdwardsHOST
3:35
I also have a quiz if you want to take to test yours officially.
Vanessa Van EdwardsHOST
3:38
We're going to go through all five in the video.
Vanessa Van EdwardsHOST
3:39
But if you want to take our free little quiz, you can take it as many times as you want.
Vanessa Van EdwardsHOST
3:42
You could also have your friends, family, and colleagues take it so you officially know their love language.
Vanessa Van EdwardsHOST
3:47
It's at scienceofpeople.com slash love dash language.
Vanessa Van EdwardsHOST
3:51
And you can take that as many times as you want.
Vanessa Van EdwardsHOST
3:53
So as we go through these in the video, be sure to take the official quiz and see where your colleagues rank.
Janice FormichellaHOST
49:03
to me.
Kristof BestGUEST
49:05
I do recommend the five love languages.
Kristof BestGUEST
49:08
Now, I recognize that that concept, the book, the writer, is problematic.
Kristof BestGUEST
49:12
It was focused heavily on religion.
Kristof BestGUEST
49:33
too much for some people.
Janice FormichellaHOST
49:35
That is.
Janice FormichellaHOST
49:37
And I was just looking behind me because they do have a love languages for singles.
Janice FormichellaHOST
49:41
But yeah, a book by the same author.
Nicole BlainHOST
0:28
That's right.
Nicole BlainHOST
0:28
And that's what we're talking about today as we continue our conversation right around Gary Chapman's The Five Love Languages.
Nicole BlainHOST
0:45
And last episode, we talked about words of affirmation.
Nicole BlainHOST
0:48
And today, we're talking about a love language that I absolutely love because it is my number one.
Nicole BlainHOST
5:10
Right.
Allan BlainHOST
5:11
Sure.
Nicole BlainHOST
5:11
And two of the big ones that Dr. Chapman talked about in his five love languages book was quality conversation and quality activities.
Allan BlainHOST
5:21
Yeah.
DaleHOST
4:27
on my eyes.
DaleHOST
4:28
Yep, so... little recap so this past if we'll talk about this in the podcast but dr gary chapman if you're familiar with it he is the author of the five love languages which i think we did a long
KikiHOST
4:46
time ago
DaleHOST
4:46
i think early on the podcast we talked about our love languages
DaleHOST
4:50
so but dr gary chapman was at our church so thursday night he did a service talking about uh because you have another book about your apology language.
DaleHOST
5:05
And he had a sermon, like I had a message about that, really cool.
DaleHOST
5:08
Sunday, he had another message really about the five love languages and things like that.
DaleHOST
5:14
And so, you know, he encouraged everybody, like, hey, if you haven't done it, go online.

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