Terry Cole

did you...

A friend of mine, a dear friend of mine, Terry Cole, she's a person who does this work.

And she's got a new book coming out called Father Wound, I think.

But she's done Boundary Boss.

right? Yeah.

Which is so trauma-related, high-functioning, codependent.

Well, Terry and I are really good friends.

She came out to LA.

We're continuing our October series, The Architecture of Agency, exploring the forces that shape how we see ourselves, make choices and build our lives.

Last week, I spoke with psychotherapist and relationship expert Terry Cole about how the patterns we develop early in life can shape our adult relationships, our sense of worth, and the roles we take on.

Then, Dr. Kristin Neff joined me to explore the science of self-compassion and how learning to meet ourselves with kindness can create the emotional space to respond to life's challenges with greater intention.

Those conversations brought us closer to understanding the internal forces that shape our choices.

So yay, let's dive into what the father wound is.

I also wanted to start this episode to say that I was inspired to make this podcast after listening to this great, the great Terry Cole talk about her new book, Father Wound on another podcast I love listening to, Kathy Heller.

And so I wanted to give them a shout out because they got my brain going and I for sure will link Terry's book in the show notes here.

And also I'm going to try to get her on the show.

The center, Harold Morrow.

In the backfield, with Harry Gonsou at quarterback, are John Isenbarger, Terry Cole, and Jay Butcher.

We pause 10 seconds for station identification.

This is Harry Downing.

I see no reason for that because the field is perfectly dry and excellent shape.

It'll be second down and six from the 30-yard line in Hoosier territory.

Gonsou to Terry Cole.

Terry hips, uh, behind, uh, Bob Russell.

It's, it can be damaging.

I'm reading this book right now called, um, Too Much by Terry Cole.

Mm-hmm.

I'm gonna have to have her on the show, actually.

And Hoosier territory.

Gonzo to Terry Cole.

Terry hits behind Bob Russell.

He's stopped by Ralph Oliver after a gain of nearly three yards.

Harold Morrow and Bob Russell blocking.

as Terry Cole is down on the 33-yard line.

It'll be third down for the Hoosiers, and they must get just over the 35-yard line, make a third and about three.

This Indiana club has been able to come up with key third-down situations all season long.

Who was that, Andy?

Terry Cole.

Terry Cole.

Cooking with the rarest grease.

I loved every bit of what she shared.