Do you have a secret sauce? I

think with Peter, I'm not sure there's a secret sauce.

I do love the pulling back and looking at the daily and the weekly and even the annually of what are you going to do, but I don't know if you guys have seen the research out lately on gray divorce, which is defined as couples that are, you know, divorcing after 50 years and not 50 years of marriage, but 50 years old years old.

And, um, we did a little video on forest marriage.

I'll do these little reels on there.

We'll get about 1500 views.

And I defined gray divorce and said, why do you think it's happening? The next thing I know, uh, our typical 1500 went to 220 and had 3000 comments and people were lighting it up saying, we've got to the end of our relationship.

But what do you hope happens?

And here's Ted.

nobody got married for that.

Nobody went home and said, Oh dad, I met this great girl.

She's completely passive aggressive.

I can't wait till we can get together to work all that out.

You know, what did people not want to do after a day of working really hard? Work some more.

And so, I'm thinking if that's the answer, then a lot of us are in trouble.

fail, you plan to fail.

What is it? Somewhere

along the way, there came this phrase that we use called, we know tragedy, and this isn't it.

And so it'll come up with different things.

Like, for instance, I took my daughter on a trip with me to New York, and we decide we're already in New York.

Well, let's just go to Manhattan.

Okay.

You know, because that's what we do, the Ted's.

What do you do in that situation? This