Susan Forward

like to train for either.

But I have a perfect example for farm women who are listening to this is Susan Forward wrote a very powerful book.

called emotional blackmail and her key phrase is where is it written and for me this again has personal application because where is it written that elaine has to spend five hours every few days cutting all the grass on this farm so i've now hired a very capable 14 year old who does a beautiful job is it perfect no is it good enough absolutely and so the thing about you know If Elaine doesn't do it on this farm, the yard work's not going to get done.

And I'm aging in place on a farm where I've cared very dearly for yard work, Chad, for 45 years.