Shulchan Aruch HaRav

He says like this.

I'm quoting from Shulchan Aruch Harav.

This is the Shulchan Aruch of the Yalta Rebbe.

I didn't check the original Shulchan Aruch from Rabbi Yosef Karo.

But when is it a violation of, uh, bal teshaktsu? So, uh, um, so w- you, you, you-- it would have to be where you get to a point where you're, you're really, uh, desperate.

In the Shulchan Aruch Harav, the Alter Rebbe writes that if it gets to a point where you can't think of anything else, you need to go so badly that as soon as you let your guard down, it would start coming out on its own, that's bal teshaktsu.

Um, but if you could wait for some amount of time and you're able to concentrate on other things, then it's not bal teshaktsu.

Not only that, um, the, uh, if you, let's say, started to learn or to, you know, do other things, um, and, uh, and, and you didn't need to go to the bathroom at the time, and then sometime later you needed to go to the bathroom, um, and you needed to go badly, but y- y- y- you don't, uh, uh, have to, like, hold it in so strongly.