Where do you sit? Where is time for you? Where do you find that you recover? Is that in all of those? Is it separate? I just wonder where you sit.

I think, like, so I have these aspects of kink for different needs I'd say like in terms of like I've been going through a lot of work related stress this year and me being a sub for Leather Sur has been a complete release like it's been the most amazing feeling like being able to just give up almost everything like you still keep your dignity sometimes but like you just embrace like letting go like that it's almost like an exercise in letting go and being able to just let go of all of it and being transformed into what your sir wants you to be I found that quite empowering because I was at the time yeah i was stressed out my eyeballs like i just needed some sort of yeah exorcism of uh i felt like i had to be in control of everything and letting go of that control was a was like a therapy you know so So a big shout out to the sir for making me feel a lot better.

And then on the flip side, with my pup Max, he is an emotional support pup.

So I enjoy his company as a time to reflect i need that comfort of being able to speak to someone like i so i so sad sad news my family dog died this week but uh when i used to live with my mom and dad like she would be that kind of consolidating like silent presence, you know, that I could get some comfort having a wee clap and a wee bit of mindful time to myself to reflect.

and being with Max is my way of doing that and moving on and well like moving on I guess yeah because he is definitely my pup but yeah like a weekly thing I can speak to Max about anything I feel like Max has probably seen more sides of me than a lot of people have ever really uh i mean i mean a lot of i mean a lot of relationships have probably seen me in other ways but i mean they've not seen like they've not seen the state of my flat over the last year that that poor pup was uh crawling around among all the dirty socks and dirty laundry and well

Make sure you've got access to water.

Yeah, stay hydrated is the main thing.

You will take off that suit and think, oh my God, that came out of my body.