Rebecca Bailey

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Becky Bailey, who said, what you notice, you get more of.

Or Salvador Mnuchin, who said that when you're problem maintaining, how did it go? I'm going to get this one wrong if I don't be careful.

Repeated attempts to solve the problem become part of the problem maintaining cycle of interaction.

I think that that's the main focus.

And so there's a book by the lady I mentioned earlier, Becky Bailey.

It's called Easy to Love, Difficult to Discipline.

And that quickly became one of my favorite books of all time, not just on the topic of parenting.

Pat Prescott on the National Black Network in 1981.

Becky Bailey on Mutual in 1988.

Jim Lounsbury on the United Press International Radio Network in 1989. and finally Sherry Preston on ABC Radio in 2004, representing basically what radio news sounds like now.

Unfortunately, the mutual United Press International, mutual black and national black radio networks did not make it into the 21st century.

Soviet official predicts new ideas at superpower lunch and a report that Liz Dole will be U.N. ambassador.

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Becky Bailey in Washington.

Soviet leader Mikhail Gorbachev flies to New York Tuesday for what's being called the ultimate power lunch the next day with President Reagan and President-elect Bush.

I think sometimes it hindered it because then I was able to argue with her and be like – oh yeah, well, this kid at school did this and you're doing what you're saying would not have helped, right? Or like I could complain with other teachers about how the behavioral approach was better, you know? And so like I would, in my arguments with her, it was actually sometimes a hindrance because I could bring a lot of what I thought was knowledge and research and lived experience, you know? So I actually, I went to this conference with my goal of just being a great school counselor and trying to help implement a new type of behavioral approach to how we were doing discipline at the school.

And what I went to is Dr. Becky Bailey.

She does what's called conscious discipline.

And Dr. Becky Bailey uses Siegel's brain research.

And so the moment that was big for me was just seeing the brain and what it looks like when your kid is scared and how when they're afraid of you, they don't want to learn from you.

They aren't receptive and open to you.