Okay, women, as you're saying that, women, if you're watching this correctly now, do you literally have these very particular feelings where you feel that, okay, by the time you go back home, especially when you're single, because this thing about... uh because i've seen married single people it's possible i have been there before so calm down don't ask how i was there before but i've been there before so you can be married and still be single it's possible now but for those of you who are watching correctly as a single you know single male or single female do you get to the point whereby you just feel like you just wanted to just like she's painting the picture have somebody to talk to or you are just that miss independent that or miss or mr independent that believes that i whatever you give the middle finger i can't be by myself and nobody can come and tell me anything like something you said which is very important and i want to literally peel that very particular layer which is the whole construct of women feeling as if they cannot i mean they don't want to do something with the presence of a man in their space what do you think is the factor that have pushed some of these women to get to this very particular point where I just want to do me without the significant opposite sex around my space.

The honest truth is everybody has his own experiences.

Some women will tell you that they've had bad experiences with men.

I could understand when a rape patient comes to tell me that she doesn't want to have anything to do with a man or someone that has experienced molestation from a young age or terrorism.

So everybody has their own standpoint.

But I would say that, to be honest with you, originally, it's not meant to be that way.

Except we're using our own... personal characters and morals to now make it look like, okay, it's a system that cannot work.

The question that I need to throw at you, what were the factors that you had to impute in yourself as Morrie to say, I'm going to stand out as a woman?