Peter Gray
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Nov 5, 2026
1KHO 963: Meghan Cox Gurdon
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9:00Ginny YurichHOST
I think it's a good reminder.
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9:01Ginny YurichHOST
There's a book that came out recently by Dr. Peter Gray called Restoring Childhood.
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9:05Ginny YurichHOST
And he talks about how The mental health of young people has been tanking since the 60s.
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9:12Ginny YurichHOST
And so you don't remember or don't know, because maybe you weren't alive then, that things were already changing.
3200: How My Son Learned to Read When We Stopped Trying to Teach Him by Isaac Morehouse on Child-Led Learning
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5:49Greg AudinoHOST
At worst, a broken spirit.
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5:51Greg AudinoHOST
You can read any number of thinkers, like John Holt, John Taylor Gatto, or Peter Gray, on why our son's experience is not exceptional, but normal.
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6:02Greg AudinoHOST
You can look at studies that show kids who learn to read at age 4 and kids who learn to read at age 9 having the same reading comprehension by age 11.
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6:11Greg AudinoHOST
You can get story after story from places like the Sudbury Valley School about kids who taught themselves to read in a few short weeks once they got the interest, and even one girl who didn't become interested until age 13 and then went on to win a literary prize.
Beyond School: Raising Leaders, Not Followers
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11:48Jonathan ZalunardoGUEST
So everything that I'm saying here is in total solidarity with them.
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11:52Jonathan ZalunardoGUEST
I'm not fighting against teachers in fact everything that i've set out to do is in support of them to show us that we can do everything that we we believe so in regards to the actual question what did i find or where did i start looking very early i i bought a book called free to learn by peter gray and this was about eight years ago just pre-covered it all aligned perfectly that i picked up that book at that time And it started to answer some of the very fundamental questions about the way that we educate ourselves.
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12:21Jonathan ZalunardoGUEST
So that's been a very formative text in everything that I've gone and learned.
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12:25Jonathan ZalunardoGUEST
And there are other books out there like John Taylor Gatto's writing.
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12:28Jonathan ZalunardoGUEST
He talks about what the schooling system is actually doing.
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12:31Jonathan ZalunardoGUEST
And whilst they are very valuable learnings, it talks more about what's wrong with the school.
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12:37Jonathan ZalunardoGUEST
What's wrong with the way that we're educating? And I was always trying to find what is it that we can do differently? What can we actually do better? And I found this book, Peter Gray, and it just led me down this path.
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12:46Jonathan ZalunardoGUEST
And I was looking, looking, looking, looking for answers, just anyone that could tell me something.
232: How Academic Pressure Hurts Kids’ Mental Health (And What Parents Can Do) with Dr. Stuart Slavin
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12:27Stuart SlavinGUEST
So when we're thinking about paring down, it isn't just necessarily the amount of the activity, it's the kind of activity that kids are engaged in.
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12:37Stuart SlavinGUEST
And one of the things I think that we don't, we lose sight of sometimes, is that we think of play as frivolous, right? It turns out, and Peter Gray has done wonderful research on this, no, play serves a function.
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12:52Stuart SlavinGUEST
It teaches you social skills about how to get along with others, how to work together to meet a goal, how to deal with conflict, and to remove that from our kids' lives.
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13:03Stuart SlavinGUEST
And the other thing is I say that it's not just that, but it's like we've removed fun from childhood too, right? If all of these activities are so intense, where is the joy? Where's the fun? That I think is something all parents need to kind of look at and say, what do I really want for my kid?
What Parents of Pathologically Demand Avoidant Children and Teens Need to Know About Screens | Ep. 187
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17:21Casey EhrlichHOST
Research.
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17:21Casey EhrlichHOST
I forgot to bring up the book, but I released a public podcast with Peter Gray, who wrote the book Restoring Childhood, which I had an advanced copy of and got to read all the way through.
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17:36Casey EhrlichHOST
That book has dozens and dozens of original citations about the actual research on screens and social media.
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17:45Casey EhrlichHOST
So I don't have time to go through that, obviously, but if it's something that interests you, you can go see the original data and see that it's not as clear this arc of the anxious generation that it's made out to be.
1KHO 961: The Kind of Adventure a Screen Can't Give You | Isaac Rudansky, Georgie Summers and the Scribes of Scatterplot
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61:40Isaac RudanskyGUEST
Um, and it's a memory that I have clearly in my mind and it's a memory that it's a type of memory that I hope my own children, um, can grow up with.
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61:49Ginny YurichHOST
Dr. Peter Gray, he wrote a book called Free to Learn and then a really new book.
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61:52Ginny YurichHOST
He has a new book that came out this year called Restoring Childhood.
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61:55Ginny YurichHOST
And he says, for the most part, kids' best memories are outdoors and away from parents.
Stop Giving Your Phone Your BEST Attention | Ruby Ryba (EP472)
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25:13Ruby RybaGUEST
And so... having those modes handy can be really helpful.
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25:18Diane BodenHOST
I was talking to, it may have been Peter Gray.
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25:20Diane BodenHOST
He wrote a book about restoring childhood.
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25:23Diane BodenHOST
Excellent read.
DO 316 - Free Range Parenting with Lenore Skenazy of Let Grow
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6:33Lenore SkenazyGUEST
And me.
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6:34Lenore SkenazyGUEST
And Peter Gray, who's a professor, you probably know him, of psychology, who has written about the really crucial importance of free play in kids' lives.
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6:43Lenore SkenazyGUEST
Mixed stages, playing together.
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6:45Lenore SkenazyGUEST
And Daniel Schuchman, who used to be the chairman of FIRE, which fights for free speech on campus.
The Childhood We Had Would Get Our Parents Arrested Today
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16:20Michael SmerconishHOST
I can tell you that the debate I've been most eager to host is about the impact of technology on our kids, the phones.
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16:29Michael SmerconishHOST
Is it the fault of the phones? And I have secured commitments from the two people that I most wanted to debate this issue, Jean Twenge and Peter Gray.
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16:42Michael SmerconishHOST
And Jean Twenge, Dr. Twenge, is the one who says, hey, it's the phones, something went haywire in 2012, and she makes a very compelling case based on data.
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16:51Michael SmerconishHOST
But now to come to Nina's point, Peter Gray, who is the psychologist from Boston College, says a lot of that might be true, but it's not the phones primarily.
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17:01Michael SmerconishHOST
It is the education model changed, so did the parenting, and we have robbed our kids of free time, free play, and fun and that's the connection to what we're talking about right now jennifer hello to you in wisconsin a thought from you please
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17:20JenniferAUDIENCE
um hi good morning thanks for taking my call i just think people are kind of unreasonable like they're probably the same people who are condemning kids for being not independent enough but not giving them the opportunity to be independent i babysat kids younger than those children when i was like 12 years old and i just think right I mean, it's probably a different time, but it's just crazy to me that they're going that hard at that woman.
Bonus: "Of Course I Can Read, I'm Not Stupid" - Chapter 8: The Socialization Question
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1:12Alexandra KonsHOST
For most unschooling critics, this somehow seems difficult to understand.
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1:17Alexandra KonsHOST
Peter Gray says this beautifully.
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1:19Alexandra KonsHOST
Social play is the academy for learning social skills.
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1:24Alexandra KonsHOST
And what the research says.
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5:25Alexandra KonsHOST
It's the best friendship I've ever seen in my whole life.
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5:30Alexandra KonsHOST
Now the honest part.
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5:31Alexandra KonsHOST
What's hard about finding a peer group? When I talked with Peter Gray in my podcast, he said that one of the hardest parts for unschooling parents is helping their kids find a good peer group.
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5:40Alexandra KonsHOST
I couldn't agree more.
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