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Peter Gray

Peter Gray

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Nov 5, 2026

Ginny YurichHOST
9:00
I think it's a good reminder.
Ginny YurichHOST
9:01
There's a book that came out recently by Dr. Peter Gray called Restoring Childhood.
Ginny YurichHOST
9:05
And he talks about how The mental health of young people has been tanking since the 60s.
Ginny YurichHOST
9:12
And so you don't remember or don't know, because maybe you weren't alive then, that things were already changing.
Greg AudinoHOST
5:49
At worst, a broken spirit.
Greg AudinoHOST
5:51
You can read any number of thinkers, like John Holt, John Taylor Gatto, or Peter Gray, on why our son's experience is not exceptional, but normal.
Greg AudinoHOST
6:02
You can look at studies that show kids who learn to read at age 4 and kids who learn to read at age 9 having the same reading comprehension by age 11.
Greg AudinoHOST
6:11
You can get story after story from places like the Sudbury Valley School about kids who taught themselves to read in a few short weeks once they got the interest, and even one girl who didn't become interested until age 13 and then went on to win a literary prize.
Jonathan ZalunardoGUEST
11:48
So everything that I'm saying here is in total solidarity with them.
Jonathan ZalunardoGUEST
11:52
I'm not fighting against teachers in fact everything that i've set out to do is in support of them to show us that we can do everything that we we believe so in regards to the actual question what did i find or where did i start looking very early i i bought a book called free to learn by peter gray and this was about eight years ago just pre-covered it all aligned perfectly that i picked up that book at that time And it started to answer some of the very fundamental questions about the way that we educate ourselves.
Jonathan ZalunardoGUEST
12:21
So that's been a very formative text in everything that I've gone and learned.
Jonathan ZalunardoGUEST
12:25
And there are other books out there like John Taylor Gatto's writing.
Jonathan ZalunardoGUEST
12:28
He talks about what the schooling system is actually doing.
Jonathan ZalunardoGUEST
12:31
And whilst they are very valuable learnings, it talks more about what's wrong with the school.
Jonathan ZalunardoGUEST
12:37
What's wrong with the way that we're educating? And I was always trying to find what is it that we can do differently? What can we actually do better? And I found this book, Peter Gray, and it just led me down this path.
Jonathan ZalunardoGUEST
12:46
And I was looking, looking, looking, looking for answers, just anyone that could tell me something.
Stuart SlavinGUEST
12:27
So when we're thinking about paring down, it isn't just necessarily the amount of the activity, it's the kind of activity that kids are engaged in.
Stuart SlavinGUEST
12:37
And one of the things I think that we don't, we lose sight of sometimes, is that we think of play as frivolous, right? It turns out, and Peter Gray has done wonderful research on this, no, play serves a function.
Stuart SlavinGUEST
12:52
It teaches you social skills about how to get along with others, how to work together to meet a goal, how to deal with conflict, and to remove that from our kids' lives.
Stuart SlavinGUEST
13:03
And the other thing is I say that it's not just that, but it's like we've removed fun from childhood too, right? If all of these activities are so intense, where is the joy? Where's the fun? That I think is something all parents need to kind of look at and say, what do I really want for my kid?
Casey EhrlichHOST
17:21
Research.
Casey EhrlichHOST
17:21
I forgot to bring up the book, but I released a public podcast with Peter Gray, who wrote the book Restoring Childhood, which I had an advanced copy of and got to read all the way through.
Casey EhrlichHOST
17:36
That book has dozens and dozens of original citations about the actual research on screens and social media.
Casey EhrlichHOST
17:45
So I don't have time to go through that, obviously, but if it's something that interests you, you can go see the original data and see that it's not as clear this arc of the anxious generation that it's made out to be.
Isaac RudanskyGUEST
61:40
Um, and it's a memory that I have clearly in my mind and it's a memory that it's a type of memory that I hope my own children, um, can grow up with.
Ginny YurichHOST
61:49
Dr. Peter Gray, he wrote a book called Free to Learn and then a really new book.
Ginny YurichHOST
61:52
He has a new book that came out this year called Restoring Childhood.
Ginny YurichHOST
61:55
And he says, for the most part, kids' best memories are outdoors and away from parents.
Ruby RybaGUEST
25:13
And so... having those modes handy can be really helpful.
Diane BodenHOST
25:18
I was talking to, it may have been Peter Gray.
Diane BodenHOST
25:20
He wrote a book about restoring childhood.
Diane BodenHOST
25:23
Excellent read.
Lenore SkenazyGUEST
6:33
And me.
Lenore SkenazyGUEST
6:34
And Peter Gray, who's a professor, you probably know him, of psychology, who has written about the really crucial importance of free play in kids' lives.
Lenore SkenazyGUEST
6:43
Mixed stages, playing together.
Lenore SkenazyGUEST
6:45
And Daniel Schuchman, who used to be the chairman of FIRE, which fights for free speech on campus.
Michael SmerconishHOST
16:20
I can tell you that the debate I've been most eager to host is about the impact of technology on our kids, the phones.
Michael SmerconishHOST
16:29
Is it the fault of the phones? And I have secured commitments from the two people that I most wanted to debate this issue, Jean Twenge and Peter Gray.
Michael SmerconishHOST
16:42
And Jean Twenge, Dr. Twenge, is the one who says, hey, it's the phones, something went haywire in 2012, and she makes a very compelling case based on data.
Michael SmerconishHOST
16:51
But now to come to Nina's point, Peter Gray, who is the psychologist from Boston College, says a lot of that might be true, but it's not the phones primarily.
Michael SmerconishHOST
17:01
It is the education model changed, so did the parenting, and we have robbed our kids of free time, free play, and fun and that's the connection to what we're talking about right now jennifer hello to you in wisconsin a thought from you please
JenniferAUDIENCE
17:20
um hi good morning thanks for taking my call i just think people are kind of unreasonable like they're probably the same people who are condemning kids for being not independent enough but not giving them the opportunity to be independent i babysat kids younger than those children when i was like 12 years old and i just think right I mean, it's probably a different time, but it's just crazy to me that they're going that hard at that woman.
Alexandra KonsHOST
1:12
For most unschooling critics, this somehow seems difficult to understand.
Alexandra KonsHOST
1:17
Peter Gray says this beautifully.
Alexandra KonsHOST
1:19
Social play is the academy for learning social skills.
Alexandra KonsHOST
1:24
And what the research says.
Alexandra KonsHOST
5:25
It's the best friendship I've ever seen in my whole life.
Alexandra KonsHOST
5:30
Now the honest part.
Alexandra KonsHOST
5:31
What's hard about finding a peer group? When I talked with Peter Gray in my podcast, he said that one of the hardest parts for unschooling parents is helping their kids find a good peer group.
Alexandra KonsHOST
5:40
I couldn't agree more.

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