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Sep 24, 2026
What are the secrets of a successful LAT couple?
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1:03Amber MinogueNARRATOR
What are the secrets of a successful lat couple? Thanks for asking.
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1:12Amber MinogueNARRATOR
Now the idea might seem inconceivable to some, but these days more and more people are choosing to be in LAT relationships.
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1:20Amber MinogueNARRATOR
The LAT part of the term stands for Living Alone Together, which means that LAT couples are in a committed romantic relationship, but each person maintains their own private life and space.
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1:32Amber MinogueNARRATOR
Just how common is that? Well, back in 2011, a research team began a multi-method study looking into how prominent lat couples were in the UK.
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1:43Amber MinogueNARRATOR
They went on to publish their findings in a research briefing in 2013, showing that 9% of adults in the UK are in a lat couple.
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1:52Amber MinogueNARRATOR
That was backed up by a study published in January 2020 by Emeritus Professor Simon Duncan from the University of Bradford.
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2:01Amber MinogueNARRATOR
His study suggested that as many as 25% of adults in relationships had a LAT arrangement, which equated to 9% of all adults.
Gray Divorce After 50: How to Heal, Rebuild & Start Over | Oona Metz
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20:23Oona MetzGUEST
But not somebody that they're going to live with.
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20:25Oona MetzGUEST
Vicki Larson wrote a great book called Living Apart Together.
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20:30Oona MetzGUEST
And it's about being in a relationship where you're together, but you live in separate homes.
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20:35Oona MetzGUEST
And that works for a lot of women.
[NEW SEASON] How Women Lose Themselves in Relationships (And How to Become an Autonomous Woman)
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15:59Leanne OtenHOST
Women don't wanna live with a man.
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16:01Leanne OtenHOST
They are doing the LAT, the living apart together.
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16:04Leanne OtenHOST
They live in separate houses or there's-- I've seen accounts of women openly, publicly, I don't understand, but sharing openly their marriage situation and that they chose to move into an apartment and still date their husbands and sharing all this stuff.
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16:20Leanne OtenHOST
I don't understand that.