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Living apart together

Living apart together

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Sep 24, 2026

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Amber MinogueNARRATOR
1:03
What are the secrets of a successful lat couple? Thanks for asking.
Amber MinogueNARRATOR
1:12
Now the idea might seem inconceivable to some, but these days more and more people are choosing to be in LAT relationships.
Amber MinogueNARRATOR
1:20
The LAT part of the term stands for Living Alone Together, which means that LAT couples are in a committed romantic relationship, but each person maintains their own private life and space.
Amber MinogueNARRATOR
1:32
Just how common is that? Well, back in 2011, a research team began a multi-method study looking into how prominent lat couples were in the UK.
Amber MinogueNARRATOR
1:43
They went on to publish their findings in a research briefing in 2013, showing that 9% of adults in the UK are in a lat couple.
Amber MinogueNARRATOR
1:52
That was backed up by a study published in January 2020 by Emeritus Professor Simon Duncan from the University of Bradford.
Amber MinogueNARRATOR
2:01
His study suggested that as many as 25% of adults in relationships had a LAT arrangement, which equated to 9% of all adults.
Oona MetzGUEST
20:23
But not somebody that they're going to live with.
Oona MetzGUEST
20:25
Vicki Larson wrote a great book called Living Apart Together.
Oona MetzGUEST
20:30
And it's about being in a relationship where you're together, but you live in separate homes.
Oona MetzGUEST
20:35
And that works for a lot of women.
Leanne OtenHOST
15:59
Women don't wanna live with a man.
Leanne OtenHOST
16:01
They are doing the LAT, the living apart together.
Leanne OtenHOST
16:04
They live in separate houses or there's-- I've seen accounts of women openly, publicly, I don't understand, but sharing openly their marriage situation and that they chose to move into an apartment and still date their husbands and sharing all this stuff.
Leanne OtenHOST
16:20
I don't understand that.

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