there any situation where somebody should be shamed? Well, we all need shame.

We need shame to help us navigate our way through the world.

So if we were shameless, then we have no filter.

We have no conscience.

There are no consequences to us.

So one of the things that shame does is it protects us as a society by saying we shouldn't and we can't do certain things.

It's there to protect us as individuals and the society that we are in and the culture that we're in and the groups that we are in.

But then when you start to just help them, almost like a puzzle, putting a piece here, a piece there, that allows them to have compassion for that younger self and and then also gives them choice.