Kochos hanefesh

He rebukes those that he loves.

He wants to give them Nisyonos to be able to manifest their Kochos and to raise their banner of Torah and Jewish greatness.

But if you don't get any more Nisyonos...

You have to be afraid that God has given up on you.

I just can't be Ma'ayin right now.

I just don't have the Kochos.

I don't have the energy to look into it right now.

L'Chasam Sofer raises the question, if you want to distract him, why would you use an Of Tame? Say Yonah Parach.