Can you give me an idea of what you were wounded by and how that translated into you with going onto Grindr and meeting guys and stuff like that? Walk me through that if you can.

Yeah, of course.

It's long.

So basically, I mean, I grew up in Colombia, so very religious.

Obviously, growing up gay and being religious.

Were you Catholic? Yeah, Catholic.

by default, who I was was wrong.

I can't really think of anyone that has any religion that I'm close friends with.

And the age-old question here and the million-dollar question is, how do I break free from that? And it looks like you have a remembrance method to help us crack the code.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Well, I called it the remembrance method.

But before explaining a little bit about what that is, which is really... based on my own healing journey and the path that I've walked and the path that I now help my clients walk.

But the thing with repetitive patterns is that they were created many years ago for whatever experience we went through.

I mean, as gay men, we obviously, especially our generation, maybe younger generations, not so much, but as... our generation growing up as gay men, we were basically forced to hide ourselves, to perform, to maybe, I don't know, maybe you had a dysfunctional family or a father who left, you know, so many things that could have happened to you.

So in the witness, you're still maybe repeating the patterns.