John Gray

And we actually wrote a TED Talk on blind blaming concept.

But as I was sharing the TED Talk on my podcast with some very successful authors like Jack Canfield, who wrote Chicken Soup for the Soul, and John Gray, who wrote Mentor for Mars, Everybody kept telling me the same thing.

Kevin, this TED Talk would be a great book.

This would be a great book.

Our company started as a live event company, only doing live physical events.

And we still get a lot of requests to do live events, but we found that the numbers actual people's behavior people want to do virtual events people show up to a virtual event at a higher rate and you know the cost per client acquisition is lower and actually the conversion to starting to work with our speakers is higher at a virtual event than at a live event so we've really gone all in on live events we do do the occasional physical physical event but we do the virtual events they're all live and we do them for different time zones so we do for north america we do for europe we do for asia pacific and we are our whole mission is to connect people to the right mentor at the right time for them to live their mission so we bring the best speakers in the world for those of you watching this you see my banner behind me this is some of the speakers that speak at most of our summits you have everyone from you know robert kiyosaki to mark victor hansen to kim kiyosaki and janet atwood and marcy scheimoff and john gray and dr john d martini and jack canfield les brown and so on And what we want to do is just create that amazing experience where you get to learn from the best people in the world and where we together try to explore where is it you want to go, where is it you are now, and what is the thing that's stopping you, right? What's between where you are now, where you're going that's holding you back? And once we know that, because we work with the best people in the world, the best entrepreneurial mentors, the best investing mentors.

I mean, one of our speakers worked on Wall Street as an analyst for over 20 years, managing billions of dollars.

And they will come on and they will help you take that step, figure out what is it that you don't know that you don't know, and we'll make that introduction.

And it's as I told my team, we categorize a keynote speaker as someone that when I put them on a banner, it lowers our cost per acquisition, right? People see this group of speakers and they go, wow, I got to be there.

This is insane.

You know, I recognize, you know, we'll put 12 of these on one stage and, you know, everyone's going to recognize at least four or five or six of them, right? You know, we got John Gray, who wrote Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Mars.

They're awesome.

That girl has to have unconditional love for the children that she's gonna produce, which means she needs a strong man.

So when you understand that it's an actual betrayal of her, then you see, yes, like have the sensitivity training, you know? Like, I don't even know what sensitivity training is, but the point is like, you know, like read the John Gray, met her from Mars, women are from Venus.

Learn how to be a nicer guy.

Because the problem is when they RAS flip, are they ever going to say, you weren't being the man? Are they going to say that? Are they going to say, you didn't bring me a flower? What are they gonna say? Yeah, so then how does that deceive you? But they don't know they're doing it, but how does that deceive you? And maybe sometimes it could be true, but how does that kind of mess you up? How does that deceive you? Because you here, okay, look, I'm gonna drop a gem on you here, okay? I'm gonna drop a gem, okay? I was even just meeting with an ex-business partner of mine earlier today, and his wife left him five years ago.

Tom Petty be damned.

In his iconic book, Men Are From Mars and Women Are From Venus, author John Gray expounds on the psychological, emotional, and communication differences of the sexes.

An updated version might be that women, preponderantly, are from planet TikTok.

In the United States, women use TikTok more than men at every age, with the biggest gap at age 16 to 24.

But I think it really depends on how you were raised.

If you were raised to express your feelings, your more tender, more vulnerable feelings, and you were validated by a parent, especially by a father if you're a man, then you would learn that it's safe and it's okay and it makes you feel better and you can resolve a problem if you, like John Gray said, what you feel you can heal.

And so I think regardless of whether it's a high school education or a college education, I think it's really the way you were raised.

And if you were raised in an environment where you got shamed for crying or for having, you know, for feeling fear or rejection or helplessness or need, then you're going to grow up and you're going to think, okay, well, I can't express those feelings.

She wants the nurturing.

You know, that's what she wants, the feeling.

You know, John Gray wrote this book, Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus.

1992 and that book sold I believe it was something like 40 or 50 million copies and it's still very relevant and so it really explains I think that why men are men and they they have different perspectives and women are women and they have different perspectives now let me say there are exceptions and there are exceptions you know gender is is on a spectrum And, of course, transgender, I have a deep respect for that.

Welcome to the Conscious Millionaire Show, episode number 3319.

I'm John Gray, author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, and today's show, we're talking about how to talk to men and women in the workplace.

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He's my friend who is an international best-selling author of over 20 books, including the iconic, Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus.

His books have been translated into more than 45 languages, helping millions worldwide build stronger relationships.

He's also a renowned relationship expert and internationally sought after speaker, Dr. John Gray, welcome back to Conscious Millionaire.

It's such a pleasure to join you again.

Y también creo que se trata de una necesidad humana de intimidad física, atención física, atracción física.

No soy alguien que cree que John Gray, por ejemplo, hizo un gran trabajo.

Es superinteligente, que sus ideas de los hombres son de Marte, las mujeres son de Venus y que los hombres son un microondas y las mujeres son como una olla de cocina lenta, que nos toma diferentes tiempos sexualmente para calentar y esas cosas.

Creo que algo de eso estaba ligado a algunas costumbres sexuales.

And that's how it started.

And after that company, John Gray, Marcin Bienes, Esther Perel, Shanti Pell-Allen, I work with Dr. Allen.

I know she's famous in Los Angeles.

She's a family child, marriage therapist for 47 years.