was

a last minute plan.

And we went to Grey Gardens because it was a Thursday.

So and it was like to try and get a last minute reservation.

And honestly, I like my restaurants better than I like other people's restaurants.

I think it's okay to say that.

Yes.

several times.

Can you talk about what happened? The stroke? Yes.

It was not great.

I have to say, I can't.

No, no, no.

I know.

I got to do.

OK. Yeah.

But what would you as a restaurant owner say is the

I won't.

But if, [laughs] if you are going... [sighs] It's, I mean, there's, it's so complicated.

I, I think that we work really hard at making sure that I'm not only a caregiver, because that's not sexy, and-

and-Ultimately, I don't want to be a nurse to my much older husband.

You know, when you're 29 and you fall in love with someone who's 49, it might not occur to you that someday you're gonna be 51 and he's going to be 71.

I'm-- I mean, I'm 50, but yeah, that's where [chuckles] I'm gonna be 51 soon.

And I think that we, we talk about it, and if we didn't have really raw, open, sometimes difficult communication, we might not have survived this.

Yeah